Michelle Obama ♥ AKA but ...

Does this mean she'll be wearing a pink and green camouflage now? ;-)

This is a perfect time for the rabid to attack and prove the New Yorkers satire correct. The politics of fear and smear.

Is this called segregation?

I smell Sororitygate!!!

I am very proud of my new sorority sister Michelle Obama. I am currently in D.C. with the other 25,000 out of 200,000 beautiful and educated women of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated.Why wouldn't the First Lady to be become a member the First Sorority?! I look forward to supporting them ALL the way to the White House.

This is ridiculous! Why accept the honor in the first place. She should have just supported them as a neutral party...it just doesn't make sense. I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta and I cannot imagine that another organization, especially mine, would want to bestow that honor on her after she has already accepted one. That is not how it works. I am just further disappointed! She should have just stayed neutral and respected us all in that manner.

This is absolutely ridiculous! If she respected all of the organizations she should have just stayed neutral. I understand her willingness to support AKA and their monumental milestone but she could have done that as an outsider.
I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta and I could not imagine that any organization, including mine, would want to bestow that honor on her after she has already accepted one. It just doesn't work that way. Once you accept membership into on of the Divine Nine Orgs it is EXCLUSIVE and for life!
She should have just supported us all by staying neutral instead of doing something like this at the WRONG TIME!

This "HONORARY" gesture is just that; "HONORARY". It is no different than Bill Cosby, a graduate of Temple, accepting an "HONORARY" degree from Harvard. It is symbolic, not a real membership. Everyone needs to just "CHILL"

To Que Psi Phi, that's not true at all. Honorary membership IS "real membership" and is not the same as getting an honorary degree. Honorary members take the same oath as other members, are inducted, and can be made privy to the organization's confidential information, the same as other members. The difference is (and things may vary from org to org), these members are invited to join based on their outstanding accomplishments and they do not having voting power (although this may also vary from org to org). Some honoraries even choose to be involved in their local alumnae chapters. There is one in my chapter (SGRho) and we treat her like any other soror.

This was not a good judgement call for Michelle Obama. I will not support her on this one. "Honorary" to AKA means you were at least in a Geico commercial. They hand out honorary memberships like they are going out of style. It's a joke to call it prestigious. Obviously Michelle Obama knows nothing about sororities to make the non-exclusive comment and obviously AKA doesn't care. Wait a minute, its starting to make sense now. It may be a good union after all. Talk about standards. Imagine this type of judgement in the White House. I think I will take a second look at McCain.

Pretty in Pink, I would think a soroity sister would be able to write without making errors. Please go back to college and learn to write.

I think further clarification is needed. Reading the NYTimes article, it isn't clear if she wants to be able to join other orgs or be able to simply work with other orgs.

Keep in mind that her spokesperson may not fully understand Black Greekdom - not realizing that the exclusivity issue is about membership and not her ability to work collaboratively with others.

Lost my vote. The movement toward the middle; deceptive tortured explanation of the 2nd Amendment; Booker T. speeches and, now, his wife, Michelle, makes this alienating move. And yes, I am serious. She should have stayed neutral -and the non-exclusive caveat just shows a lack of understanding of historically black sororities; while purposes overlapp, they are each unique, having, among other features, divergent secrets - exclusivity is, thus, a basic premise of joining.

She didn't do it in college... she hasn't one anything to make her worthy yet. Eleanor Roosevelt deserved her honorary membership into our sorority. Michelle Obama obviously does not understand the honor if she's willing to be open to others... I say let her be a dirty red then... won't be the first time she and her husband flip flopped on issues...

I am in total shock. I cannot believe that Alpha Kappa Alpha would extend membership to Mrs. Obama ONLY because there is a chance that she might be the first black first lady. It seems that everyone wants to jump on the bandwagon. if the really wanted her, why haven't they asked her years ago.....I guess their timing is right because they waited until the 100th year celebration to do it......

I'm having a hard time understanding why this is making people soooo upset. Her membership in Alpha Kappa Alpha does not have anything to do with...well - anything. I think that as members of the Divine 9 - Soror Michelle Obama should be congratulated. We (members of historically black greek letter orgs) should be uplifting her with kind words and prayer. Not tearing her down and attemting to steal her thunder. Of all the issues in this world to be upset about...this is the one you choose - - - As far as the idea of other orgs offering Soror Michelle Obama membership - well - you are probably just a little frustrated because she is now a member of THE FIRST AND THE FINEST~THIS IS A SEEEERRRRRRRRIOS MATTER!!!!! AKA~CELEBRATING 100 YEARS

I'm not sure if I am reading the same passage as the rest of you. She is saying that she will not only work with the beautiful ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha but will work with anyone who is willing to work to enhance the community. Non-exclusive means that she is not closed to WORKING with other sororities. I think the lovely ladies of Delta Sigma Theta are jumping the gun AGAIN and not looking at what the passage is saying but rather making their own meaning for some stange reason. If Michelle Obama makes you want to vote for McCain then you are too ignorant for anything that I may have to say to change your mind. She is has accepted membership into a sorority not a terrorist group...just relax. Princeton did not have an undergraduate chapter while she was in college and now is her opportunity. At the end of the day she is an educated and sophisticated black woman. Don't we at least have that in common? If not you might want to do a mirror check! Alpha Kappa Alpha women do it best but it wouldn't hurt some of you others to evaluate where you stand in life!

Keep in mind Elenore Roosevelt, Rosa Parks and Corretta Scott King all received and accepted this same honor. The sorority is historically black but as Elenore
Roosevelt would attest ...It is not exclusively black

To Sharon,

Please respect your sorority (AKA) by presenting yourself in a respectful manner when referring to other Greeks. DO NOT refer to us as "Dirty Red". The name is Delta Sigma Theta

To Sharon,

Please respect your Sorority (AKA) as well as mine by referring to other Greek Orgs in a respectful manner. DO NOT refer to us as "Dirty Red", the name is DELTA SIGMA THETA. Kindly show some maturity (if that's possible)

I am an AKA and yes, I'm glad that Michelle Obama accepted the invitation. I'll be happy to call her Soror. I would be just as happy if she had accepted DST's, SGRho's, or ZPhiB's invitation because what it shows me is that she hasn't forgotten the Divine Nine and the Higher Purpose we all serve. I think at times we forget that and get caught up in petty things regarding which organization is better. We have to keep in mind that when we do compare and put down eachother, we are comparing Apples to Oranges. I say that because while we all are service organizations attempting to serve our communties, we have different approaches and different ways of serving a higher purpose. As members of the Divine Nine we need to celebrate each time we do have an Honorary join us as it only makes us stronger. We wouldn't be where we are without the support of eachother. I think Michelle made a great decision by becoming one of US (the Divine Nine) and I know that WE (the Divine Nine) are going to do everything we can to support OUR new Soror in their push for the White House! Let's bring change and make a difference!!!

I have love for the Obamas, I am a major supporter, however as a non member of the greek life that was an asinine move of Michelle Obama. I am truly incredulous of my voting decision at this point. That was a wrong politically move of her.

If anything she should have joined a much more community based--not "my husband is important and I am too" (e.g. Coretta Scott-King)based organization such as Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc.

So the AKAs are still giving out their letters for no reason. Just adding to the looonnnggg lineage of PAPER members. Ahhh its so sad that people would give away their letters to people who didn't earn them. I guess different strokes for different folks lol

Haters hate. The negative comments and spelling errors are taking up space. I am rolling as I laugh at you all carry on with yours and your ignorance. Soror Obama WILL serve "ALL MANKIND."

And why is this an issue? I think you folks take yourself and your sorority way too seriously. She is accepting the honorary membership. She supports the goals of the soroity. Can only see this as a good thing.

So this non-exclusive honorary membership entitles her to join DST, ZphiB, and SGRho? That is what happens when you hand out letters to anyone to boast your roster of members. When we will see an offiical press release?

To Sharon and Shawn and all of the others that said because of Mrs. Obama's decision, they are going to vote the other way.... STAY HOME ON THE DAY OF ELECTION! GROW UP!!! If you really had some sense, you would not let a small issue like honorary membership into an organization be the deciding factor of your vote for someone who will be controlling our lives in the next four years. Vote for the real ISSUES that effect our lives on a day-to-day basis. As a member of Delta Sigma Theta, I honestly thought, "you know what? The AKAs did that?" But now hearing that she's only accepting the invitation as a non-exclusive member, that was a bad call on the part of the sorority, not Michelle Obama. Point blank, she obviously doesn't understand the exclusiveness of membership into the Divine 9. It should have been the responsibility of AKA to let her know and tell her that membership has always been and always will be exclusive. Didn't the same thing happen when they tried getting Hilary Clinton at one point? Why change your protocols for Michelle? You know what? Thinking about it some more... She just really wants to be a Delta!

Wow? If this doesn't expose problems within the "Divine Nine," I don't know what else does. The long-standing rivalry between Deltas and AKAs is supposed to be lighthearted fun, like a USC vs. UCLA football game. But, this... I forwarded the story to a non-Greek friend of mine and she was absolutely astounded by the vitriolic nature of the comments. And, there was no way I could defend us. I am a Delta, but larger, I, you -- we are all adults who seek and want the best for ourselves and our communities... if we didn't, we wouldn't have joined any of the other organizations. We need to do better, ladies. We really do.

In a true spirit of love,

moDiva

I guess the one thing that needs clarification is Michelle's reasoning behind the "non-exclusive" comment. Until that is clarified all that is being said is hearsay and assumption.

My only thing is, either you are a member or you arent... NO IN BETWEEN

thats why im glad my noble klan doesnt have honorary members... too much room for drama.

and ladies the back and forth on here does not reflect that of which you claim to represent. We all have varying opinions and thats cool but the name calling and negative comments about other orgs. is childish. (and we wonder why we are in the state of affairs we are in now, even the "talented tenth" cant get along)

Obviously she wanted to be an AKA. No disrespect to DST, SGP, or Zeta. We are all great organizations but Michelle can't have it all. No other Sorority will bestow Honorary upon her and she knows that....She was just trying not to offend the others.

Okay, Okay, people! Let’s settle a few things now so they can be resolved. There is no “hating” from my organization at all as a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta I come from long linage of woman who paved the roads with blood, sweat, and tears to bring social awareness to the black community. After all we are the FIRST Social action and politically involved INCORPORATED SORORITY to fight for the rights of woman and the black community.

Delta Sigma Theta is second to none, as we stand on the arms of:

Shirley Chisholm, the first Black woman member of the U.S. Congress, who was also the first African American and first woman to run as a major party candidate for the presidency of the United States.

Mary Church Terrell was the first African American chosen to represent the United States Congress of Women and to serve on the board of education of a major city.

Dorothy I. Height, Ph.D., was appointed by President Carter to the Presidential Commission on a National Agenda for the 1980s. She has served as president of the National Council of Negro Women for over 40 years.

Barbara Jordan was the first African-American to serve in the U.S. congress from the South since reconstruction; first Black woman to preside over a state senate; and the first Black person to deliver the keynote address at the Democratic National Convention.

Carol Moseley-Braun became the first African-American female ever elected to the U.S. Senate (Illinois) in 1992. She served as the U.S. ambassador to New Zealand from 1999-2001 under appointment from President Bill Clinton and in 2003, began a run for the Democratic nomination for president.

Patricia Roberts-Harris was the first African-American woman to serve as an ambassador, representing the U.S. in Luxembourg under President Lyndon B. Johnson

Just to name a few…. This is not about (for me) what organization Mrs. Obama chose to be affiliated with as I personally still admire her strength and contribution to this cause. However, I do agree that the statement can be interpreted many different ways…one of those being “non-exclusively” associated… which I believe to be quite disrespectful. If what she meant was… “I will still work with other organizations to uphold their agendas”…then simply put that is what she should have said (or her spokesperson rather). She may have a degree from Princeton and a J.D. from Yale but clearly that package didn’t come with common sense. Additionally, what is even more disappointing is she will not even be present at their ceremony…so in fact is she even “non-exclusively” a member? My thoughts are she should have remained neutral until she could have made an “exclusive decision” …or just gracefully decline.

Who cares which organization she's in?? Although I do think it was a little weird for her to say he membership is non-exclusive. There is no such thing as non-exclusive membership in the Divine Nine. You are what you are. That would be like a Delta becoming a member in undergrad and then after she crosses those burning sands into Delta land she say's; "I think I'll Skeeeeweeeee instead"! LOL it just wouldn't happen. She is now a member Alpha Kappa Alpha, may she wear her Paper with pride.

"Yes We Can"

Okay, Okay, people! Let’s settle a few things now so they can be resolved. There is no “hating” from my organization at all as a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta I come from long linage of woman who paved the roads with blood, sweat, and tears to bring social awareness to the black community. After all we are the FIRST Social action and politically involved INCORPORATED SORORITY to fight for the rights of woman and the black community.

Delta Sigma Theta is second to none, as we stand on the arms of:

Shirley Chisholm, the first Black woman member of the U.S. Congress, who was also the first African American and first woman to run as a major party candidate for the presidency of the United States.

Mary Church Terrell was the first African American chosen to represent the United States Congress of Women and to serve on the board of education of a major city.

Dorothy I. Height, Ph.D., was appointed by President Carter to the Presidential Commission on a National Agenda for the 1980s. She has served as president of the National Council of Negro Women for over 40 years.

Barbara Jordan was the first African-American to serve in the U.S. congress from the South since reconstruction; first Black woman to preside over a state senate; and the first Black person to deliver the keynote address at the Democratic National Convention.

Carol Moseley-Braun became the first African-American female ever elected to the U.S. Senate (Illinois) in 1992. She served as the U.S. ambassador to New Zealand from 1999-2001 under appointment from President Bill Clinton and in 2003, began a run for the Democratic nomination for president.

Patricia Roberts-Harris was the first African-American woman to serve as an ambassador, representing the U.S. in Luxembourg under President Lyndon B. Johnson

Just to name a few…. This is not about (for me) what organization Mrs. Obama chose to be affiliated with as I personally still admire her strength and contribution to this cause. However, I do agree that the statement can be interpreted many different ways…one of those being “non-exclusively” associated… which I believe to be quite disrespectful. If what she meant was… “I will still work with other organizations to uphold their agendas”…then simply put that is what she should have said (or her spokesperson rather). She may have a degree from Princeton and a J.D. from Yale but clearly that package didn’t come with common sense. Additionally, what is even more disappointing is she will not even be present at their ceremony…so in fact is she even “non-exclusively” a member? My thoughts are she should have remained neutral until she could have made an “exclusive decision” …or just gracefully decline.

Right now I think Michelle is caught up in the hype. I predict she will soon reject their invitation just like Hillary Clinton did.

To the AKA's: Mrs. Obama has at this point accepted the invitation but has not yet been inducted so you should respect your organization and not call her soror yet. For those non-greeks who say we take our organizations too seriously, you have no idea what we're about. Contrary to what some believe, most active members are in alumnae/grad chapters, not undergrad. This means that members juggle being parents, going back to school in some cases, having a personal life, and running their organizations all at the same time. Yes, it's the alumnae chapters that run the organizations and handle the business. If that's not serious, I don't know what is. If you're on the outside looking in, you have no right to speak on it...period.

For those of you that are more concerned with her affiliation to any particular sorority to the point where it has discourage you to vote for her husband, not HER, for president, really need to take a step back for a reality check. The focus is to bring our community together, not what greek organization is the best.

I am a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated and would appreciate if other members, Sorors, will STOP referring to her as "Soror Michelle Obama". She has ACCEPTED the invitation into our illustrious sisterhood, not INDUCTED. For her publicist to come up with this "non-exclusive" thing is bogus. In the world of Greekdom, we all know that honorary membership is an exclusive membership. Prime example: Sen. Hillary Clinton declined the invitation because it would exclude her from membership into other sororities. I can agree to a certain extent of the "bandwagon" jumping because it's mighty funny she accepted the invitation, when she could have simply joined a graduate chapter. With our Centennial and her husband possibly becoming the first black president, it seems suspect. She should have remained neutral and supported ALL organizations, as she stated. For those who want to comment about how we take our organizations "too seriously", you will never understand because you aren't a member.

Alpha Kappa Alpha,
Yes, I do agree she should have stayed neutral unless she always wanted to be an AKA, i do not know why but hey suit yourself. As a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority inc. I have never seen an organization just pop just pop up and make someone an honorary member of an organization to me this looks like a publicity stunt thought of by Alpha kappa Alpha in the hopes that she will be the first black woman president; to go along with the whole first thing but sorry i would have at least waited until the man Mr. Barack Obama got into office dang.

THIS IS THE REAL RESPONSE!!!!
I pray for the diving nine. As a member of ALPHA PHI ALPHA I’m disappointed in this display of ignorance. All nine of the divine nine organizations could rattle off a laundry list of our prestigious members…that’s what makes us divine. Our intelligence, intellect, tact, and passion for justice, and equality…that’s what makes us divine. Our desire to affect change DAMN YALL be for real…that’s what makes us divine. In a sense we are all in this together. I believe emphatically that I am a member of the best and brightest organization in the world. But that does not give me grounds to destroy any others with my words or deeds. DAMN I’m sick to my stomach on the coo. How did we fall to this? Everyone should go and review their history, NPHC was established for a reason. The Civil Rights Movement, and every major black movement in American History was spearheaded by members of OUR organizations. Collaborative efforts that changed the course of history, and not just ONE group. As far as being offended by the outsiders looking in…they have every right to comment. When we make a mockery out of what we stand for, and give them room to misjudge who we are we can not be angered by their confused and angry responses. There is nothing divine about these comments, or our attitudes. Come on soror’s yall are better than that. As for the D’s yall kno your better than that too. I can’t stand to see educated black women fighting each other (unless its over me lol) but on the coo 200 years of slavery, oppression, discrimination, lynching’s, and unimaginable brutalities are still not enough to bring us together? Those of you who continue in this ignorance must have not completed the journey across the sands…it represents enlightening and empowerment lets not continue to disgrace the founders of our prestigious organizations…on the coo yall know better than to solicit votes for McCain on here. You going be looking stupid when the gas prices be sitting at $1,906 a gallon lol. As for those of you who are not familiar with what the divine nine is, please don’t misjudge any of these organizations based on these ignorant comments every family has a few crack heads that show up to the family reunion each year. Lets keep in mind that there was a time where the only two colors that mattered was black and white (that’s not intended to offend my white brothers and sisters lol) But on the coo lets stop with the self sabotage.

This is really sad!! To read some of the comments you all are making.
At a time when the future of not only Black America but America period is uncertain,
All you can think about is what color this lady is willing to wear.
Come on, raise your level of thinking and stop letting so much division come between us.
We are here in the moment, at a point in history that all of the Founders could have only dreamed of, and this is how we’re behaving? We have to do better.

For the members of other organizations who dare position their fingers to reference my organization's membership practices...please check yourself.

The "paper" comments and who is bestowed honorary membership is, basically put, none of your business. Not to mention that people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. My sorors and I work hard...every day for Alpha Kappa Alpha. Please don't get caught up in the hype of Mrs. Obama. Check our website. Honorary memberships are given to women of standard who make a difference within their communities and uphold the legacy of AKA. They are not always of celebrity status. However, even when they are well-known, these women still uphold our goals. Michelle Obama is not just the Senator's wife. Not only did she succeed, to the dismay of some, in an Ivy League Istitution, but her community service efforts surpass most. Wikipedia her, and us, before you speak of what you dont know!

The same can be said for YOUR honorary members. The list is just as long: Mary McLeod Bethune, Nancy Wilson, Camille Cosby, Ruby Dee, Aretha Franklin, Nikki Giovanni, Lena Horne, Berverly Sills, Cicely Tyson, Betty Shabazz, and Shirley Caesar Williams, etc... "google search 2008"

Please dont pretend as if your organization don't have some of the same practices as others...At the end of the day, we have a common goal. So when you put us down, you're kicking yourself as well.

I would agree that the AKA's should chill on calling Michele an AKA already. She accepted the invite but hasnt been inducted. I think some of the sorors need to learn to keep there mouths shut as this was started by there members plastering the news all over Facebook and other social sites.

If Michele doesnt agree to be inducted, then AKA will look well a tad bit silly.

Just my
.06 cents.

I did not have the opportunity to attend college.
I made sure that my daughter was exposed to
the “Divine Nine” as a sophomore and a junior in
high school we worked closely with the three most
popular sorority on community services activity.
She spent her senior year participating in a debutante program.
But after reading some of these comments posted by
supposedly grown and educated women, stating that
“Senator Obama has lost their vote because of this.”
I’m telling my daughter to run in the opposite direction
from this cult like mind set. Not one of these originations
are more important then the future of our children or our
nation. SHAME on you!! You’d vote for a third Bush term.
You all have probably seen the movie. My mantra is now:

RUN FORREST RUN!!

So there's goes another AKA who will be apart of another Sorority....I'm seeing 1913 all over again HUH ;)

Way to go Michelle Obama. On behalf of the First Family (Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.), I would like to welcome you to the land of greekdom. Continue to strive and expect nothing but the best. You are our First Lady and on November 4, 2008, the country will accept you as theirs too. Hold up the light.

I am a proud member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. and I am thrilled about this. I am thrilled that Mrs. Obama has decided to join the Divine Nine. I really could care less which one she joined..I am just glad she joined. We are all different but strive for the same overall goals and that is all that matters in the end. We can all co-exist together and I sincerely do not understand why some of these people are so upset. This is the same ugly spirit that keeps racism going that keeps us divided in one way or another. Stop the madness! I almost wonder if all these people posting are actually Greek or if they are posers hiding behind a computer screen. Anywho, Mrs. Obama and her husband are pioneers and I am thrilled for them and the ladies of AKA. OBAMA '08!

I don't understand why this is a big issue! The remarks about being paper?! The name calling!!!....Come on grow up! I feel as though people are taking this out of hand....Let her live her life...If she wants to be apart of Alpha Kappa Alpha... let her...If Paris Hilton wants to make sex videos...let her....If Lindsey Lohan wants to do drugs...let her! Let people live their life! Just because she joined a sorority does not mean it will change anything....Her husband is running for president...not her...

I'n not a member of the Divine Nine. I need you guys to clear something up for me. What's the difference in pledging grad or becoming an honorary member?

I'm not a member of any sorority but I plan to cross in the near future. I come from a line of AKA's. Not only was my Mother disheartened when she read these comments, but so was my Grandmother. To hear comments that have been made by AKA and DST, I am ashamed for you. We as Black women need to stick together and uplift one another. I think Mrs. Obama is just trying to show support for all women, not only AKA's, (who come in many different shades and colors) but any organization that stands for a just cause. Even if she chooses not to become a member I will still support her. Stop downing each other and continue to support the Obama's! Obama '08!!!!!!

There is a hilarious writeup about Michelle Obama and 'AKA Barbie' both coming into the sorority over at www.mokellyreport.blogspot.com

It applies to the discussion here but doesn't seem to be as meanspirited as many of these comments are.

Just sharing...

Mrs. Obama made the correct choice. I take it that none of you were in Hall B on Sunday at 4pm in the convention center because if you were, you would know that she ACCEPTED her membership and she will be official after her process is complete. We can think of her being in probate practice now :)

Its amazing how you all carry on about this story. She is a black woman from the Southside of Chicago. Don't you all think she knows she can't be in other sororities? She will help other sororities but when she dies, she will be an ivy beyond the wall.

If you were NOT there, I encourage you to go to AKA1908.com and watch the webcast of the public meeting and get your misconceptions cleared up.

And remember, ALL OF YOUR FOUNDERS PLEDGED UNDER MINE. Respect your roots.

Just my .08 cents!

please correct me if i'm wrong but delta's and aka's aren't rivals. she didn't "dis" one sorority for another. she didn't get jumped in so that she could fight the rival gang. this is an honor. why people are saying she should have stayed neutral baffles me. please tell me why

That's nice, but I bet they didn't expect that whole non-exclusive stipulation. Love to see how this pans out...

Wow! These were words people! Poor choice...perhaps, but words nonetheless. Words spoken by an Obama rep. It’s as if you presumably educated folk are grasping at straws to find whatever fault you can with these words. How about we do this…not as men, women, members of BGLO, but as humans…show Mrs. Obama the love and respect that she RIGHTFULLY deserves. And make her feel that she is welcomed.

Also you ALL need to relax. I understand you love and our committed to your own respective orgs, but maybe Michelle isn't familiar with the protocol and to hold that against her is immature and childish. If I learn that people will stop supporting them over this... its not her who has the problem.

WAKE UP MY PEOPLE!!

Hold your horses, people! I am a proud Delta (spr 92), and the best friend of a proud AKA (spr 90). I absolutely extended congrats to my best friend when she sent a majorly braggadocious text to me from their Boule in D.C. all about Mrs. Obama becoming an AKA. I am not hating at all- Michelle Obama is an awesome woman, and I am sure that any of our organizations would be honored to have gotten to her first. So, I am big girl enough to give props when they are due. . . . . .

. . .Props IF and ONLY IF she actually gets inducted. Look. Michelle Obama lived on the Southside of Chicago. Does anyone REALLY think she doesn't understand that being an AKA is mutually exclusive with being anything else in the Divine 9??? Please! Mrs. Obama is trying to backtrack because she realizes that declaring membership to any one organization during the eye of the campaign is not a smart move. Much like when HILLARY told AKA yes and backtracked. (Remember that, AKAs?) I believe that she is likely not going to be inducted. (Many of my AKA friends agree with me.) Besides, after their wonderful Centennial celebration, I doubt that AKA would be willing to induct her without the clear expectation that it be exclusive, and that she declare that. Otherwise you might see her in pink, green and blue! (Wouldn't have to worry about Delta asking her after that, but I can't speak for the rest! LOL!)

As for folks saying she is not deserving of honorary membership- that is just folks hating. Check her story! Michelle Obama is live as heck, and I think there is nothing wrong with AKA inviting her. She is quite a woman.

Lastly, advice to my AKA friends and greek sisters. . . .PLEASE do not talk any more trash or write things like "this is a seerrrrr-ious matter" until the woman gets inducted as an AKA. Otherwise, you will have lots of egg on your pretty little faces. . .hee hee. We held off on bragging when Halle Berry "accepted" our 2003 invitation. Is Halle Berry a Delta? Aaahhh, that would be a "NO." (Told my best friend I'd give her $100 if Obama gets inducted. I think I will be just fine!) The only thing official is Barbie doll at this point. LOL!

Take home message: "ACCEPTED" does not equal "INDUCTED." I am really rooting for y'all. . . good luck with that, AKAs. . .LOL

I am embarassed to read these comments I'd rather some of you to stay at home then to vote for McCain because of a membership from Michelle. She is one of the sharpest ladies ive ever seen and the comments ive read are straight up ignorant are yall sure yall went to college let along displayed leadership skills to become greek?

I am not greek but clearly londyn needs to do reserach before listing honorary members of DST. DR. Betty Shabazz was a charter member of North, Manh. chapter of DST. and a few listed even pledge at Howard. proven again .first and finest..please.. come correct of you want to talk about DST

Folks reading. . . .this is just good clean fun. Trust me, we are all college educated, committed African-americans talking about something of interest to us. Relax. We all plan to vote, and I doubt that, no matter how passionate, these comments represent anything other than good ol' fashioned water cooler talk. Relax.

Please don't believe that any of us wouldn't support the Senator (Obama) because of Michele being inducted into AKA! Relax already!

And for the record- we definitely are NOT rivals (AKA and Delta.) We go waaaaay back, and so there is always some fun banter between us. Make no mistake. We are all committed to improving the world. Period. Historically, Delta Sigma Theta was founded as a more service oriented organization (any AKA can tell you that) - but this does not mean that the AKAs are not doing wonderful and important things in the community every single day. We are all doing the doggone thang! Because of this history, the organizations are just very different, and members are very passionate and fiercely loyal. The personalities of the members are interestingly different, too. Some of my sorority sisters were a little surprised not because AKA isn't an awesome organization, but Mrs. Obama just struck them as, well, "more Delta" to them.
To quote my best friend (an AKA):
"AKAs are ladies. . .Deltas are WOMEN." (Verbatim quote- TOTALLY AGREE) I am really not being mean, I promise- but Mrs. MCCAIN seems more like a "pretty girl in twenty pearls" than Mrs. Obama. I can see her with the mirror out doing the whole prissy-look-in-the-mirror thing now. I see Mrs. Obama lobbying somewhere or founding a college. . . .I'm just saying! Y'all don't have to admit it, but I KNOW you secretly agree! LOL!

Soooo. . . .from a grown-a Delta WOMAN, at the end of the day, regardless of our trashtalking, it is nothing but love for the OBAMAS, the AKAs (YES, I SAID IT) and all of our other greek and non-Greek brothers and sisters. This is just a fun discussion. RELAX! (But the Mrs. McCain joke was funny. .. . .)

People please grow up! I keep reading comments from other organizations who say that Alpha Kappa Alpha is only inviting her because she will possibly be first lady. Well that only shows that that is the only reason your organization would accept her. Maybe before you write such things for the world to see you should try looking up info on possibly your first lady and find that there is more to her than just being Obama's wife!!!

I can't believe thism is being discussed. How immature are the people who are against Michelle becoming an honorary member. I see you in the same light as I see the media (cnn,msnbc) a joke. Always looking to create problems and evoke fear. Grow up get over it and stick to real issue facing black america. Our young men are dying by the dozens in the streets everyday as well as filling our prisons until they are overflowing.

Hi all, just wanted to say that I believe too many of you are reading too far into what Mrs. Obama was supposedly quoted as having said. As we know from many articles written about our favorite celebs, the writers add to the story or take away from. You all know that our President, Soror Barbara McKinzie made it clear to Mrs. Obama what honorary membership entailed. None of you know whether or not she wanted to pledge undergrad but never had the opportunity and now once presented with honorary membership, she jumped at the chance. I think it was VERY smart move on all involved. What I read was Mrs. Obama saying "hell yes I want to be an AKA, but I'm not going to leave my other sistergreeks hanging". I don’t think she was saying that she would accept membership into Alpha Kappa Alpha, and if the ladies of Delta Sigma Theta called she would take it too.

We spend too much time arguing over petty stuff like this and then people are ready to change their voting decision because she wants to be down with my sorority??? How absurd!!! We want her because she is an OUTSTANDING representation of what our sorority was built on. While many Sorors support Barack, I am certain that there are others who do not. Her decision to join Alpha Kappa Alpha should not hinder her husband becoming the First African-American president. Let’s stop the hating and get back to the issues at center of the election and let’s make history in 2008!

Hello People,

I think that this was definitely a good look for the ladies of AKA. Bravo! Furthermore, if Mrs. Obama wanted to be a member, than I am happy for her as well. Bravo again! That's excellent -- should she be inducted this would be a win win situation for both parties! In life, we are all given the blessing of choice.

In terms of timeliness.... I agree that this seems a little suspect/opportunistic, but ton pis (oh well)! Such is life... If this is propaganda than it still isn't something that is big enough to suggest that her husband is worthy of assuming the role as President. Many people have made such remarks and I think that it is just ridiculous! I am ready for a change and Mr. and Mrs. Obama have articulated a vision for our future that is consistent with my own vision.

I think that all of the Greek members of D9 should focus on the contributions that they can make towards their respective organization's goals instead of throwing salt on anyone else. Although Mrs. Obama had an excellent career as an attorney and community leader, most D9 organizations have members who ACTUALLY pledged and have similar credentials! So what is the drama about? If this is about the fact that she may become the first black First Lady... how about one of you people who are so irritated strive to be the first black female President (which would be more impressive) and represent us as black women and/or your organization in that fashion as well.

Mrs. Obama's decision to become an Honorary member of one organization doesn't take away the legacy of any other and if you earnestly believe in the legacy of your respective organization as well as its purpose then you should be shaped to that purpose! Don't be a hater. It's disgusting.

On a side note, I also agree that the person who posted under the name Londyn referenced wikipedia like it was an official source of information. ANYONE can post information on a wiki site. Wikis are a system of information sharing designed with the purpose of giving users the ability to update information frequently. Some of the people that you listed were not honorary members. In addition some were people who were allies of the members of DST while the Sorority was in its early stages which given the context of time is different than women w/o having any affiliation being asked to become members. Those women such as Mary McLeod Bethune, were bestowed honorary membership based on their contributions to service as well as the commitment the ideals and goals of the organization which were displayed by alliances already built. Ultimately, this is why it is important to have a process where potential members learn the histories of all organizations so that they are not ignorant about the changes that we have effected as a PEOPLE. The work that we are all doing is about improving the social disparities that marginalized people face!! If you can't get that then you need to renounce your own letters...

God bless all those people (Greek or Non-Greek) who are dedicated to changing this world. We must remember that to whom much is given much is required -- so we must all use our privilege and power to help one another, not to degrade ourselves or each other.

Sisterly,
G Diva :)

I'm sitting here in my cubicle reading the comments and shaking my head in disbelief as you ladies go back and forth about your sororities. I'm not greek (although hubby and brother -in-law are Omegas, nephew a Kappa, niece, sister-in-law and best friend are AKA's,etc.) but I feel I can still post my opinion. We have broader issues to consider such as the price of gas, home foreclosures, unemployment, healthcare, etc., instead of worrying about what sorority a presidential candidate's wife becomes affiliated with. It is embarassing to me as an african american woman to see you arguing about who's sorority is the best, "name dropping" about who's affiliated with your sorority, and on and on. At the end other day, neither of the "devine nine" will buy gas for me, stop my home from going into foreclosure, keep me from getting a pink slip, or pay my healthcare coverage. We need to be on our knees praying that God will sustain us the next few months and deliver us from George Bush.

As a soror of Alpha Kappa Alpha ( Spr.89) thats right old school, when pledging was pledging. I am so saddened to see you ladies tear each other down. All Divine Nine members have people who have received honary memberships into their organizations. Michelle Obama has not been inducted into Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc as yet, please do not call her soror because she has not passed through that gate. She has only accepted the invitation, Our national president was the first to defend the Obama's in regards to the cover of the New Yorker magazine, where were the others? why did they not speak out on this outrage? If you think for one moment that the National body of AKA just woke up yesterday and decided that they were going to extend her an invitation then you are crazy. This process started long ago, you are just being enlightened because it became public. The paper comments are commical because truth be told if u didn't cross before 89/90 we old school consider you paper! if u think an underground process sneaking and hiding gives you the right to call others paper it does not! If you were not dressed alike, walked on line,knew your ace and your back, and your line was not under 25 u are paper. If you don't know all your sisters by first middle and last names, dont know their parents name or anything about them but their first name or their face you are paper. lets get it straight. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. Stop the hating and work in your communities to get out the vote, that is what is most important at this time. If Michelle Obama is going to make you vote for John McCain then do so, but then don't complain when the gas gets to $6 and your family members are deployed forever. Let's not have the crabs in a barrel mentality over a simple invitation into one of the finest Divine Nine organizations.
This is a SERIOUS matter...

I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta, and my best friend of 19 years is a proud member of AKA. Yes, we poke fun at each other, but it is always done with a sisterly spirit. I am excited that Michelle Obama has decided to accept membership into AKA. I feel that everyone should be able to choose their organization. I love Delta, and, yes, I feel it is the best. The BEST for me, which does not mean it is the best for all. We are all different, and we should respect those differences. It saddens me to see fellow Greeks going at it on this site. We should all be united as we are typically the leaders in our communities, professions, and churches, and we have to lead by example. So congrats, Michelle, and congrats to the ladies of AKA on 100 years of sisterhood. Sorors, I will you in Orlando next week. -The Diva

To all the AKA's get over yourself. Try being proud of being a good person and not what you have to pay for. Many if not all of you have paid plenty for the privilege of you pride. If this has helped further your career then Kudos to you, but the real fact is your so called community activism is a joke at best. The Obama's are running on a platform of change. What change will come from joining an organization whose entire purpose is exclusivity and separation. Michelle has managed without the "pride" of the AKA,s and focused her money on what was truly important. As for those who say they didn't have a chapter at Princeton don't be simple minded. You know as well as I do if she wanted to join she could have done so at another chapter. Believe it or not AKA,s the world does go on without you.

Dawn,

Please note that if you have a daughter or plan to have a daughter that she will forever be considered "PAPER" in your eyes should she choose to join a sorority! Be careful with your words and stop spitting in the wind!

Just had to say that because you (and many, NOT ALL, 80's greeks) are so ignorant with that old skool bs! Some of you are the most "PAPER" in your actions and have YET to move on from college.

SIncerely,
FINANCIAL Delta for LIFE

P.S. The FIRST Black woman president of the United States of America will be a Delta who pledged in the 80's!

@Dawn

I dont think any of the other sororities got involved with defending the Obama's because as a tax-exempt organization, you are technically not supposed to cross that line into politics.

You never know what any of the orgs have done to defend her. Not everything is publicized you know.

And of course you all have been planning it for months now. But this is my question

Would she be an honorary member even if her husband wasn't running for the President

And her use of the words non-exclusive lead me to believe she would have accepted anybody's membership, you guys just beat everyone else to the punch.

I dont care for honorary members anyway. I dont believe in seeking someone out just because they have "money"

Also, i love Michelle Obama and Barack but as an AA woman and seeing the other women who are honorary in your sorority, Michelle really hasn't accomplished anything compared to them

Just sounds to me you invited her for bragging rights. But congrats anyway to both AKA and to her

What is the problem? She is the best wanting to align herself with the best--Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. is the just that. Not putting any of the other sororities/organizations down, but honestly, who wouldn't want to be apart of the organization who first recognized the importance of morals, ethics, stewardship, entrepreneurship, family, citizenship and the responsibility to reach back into the community with the goal of having a positive impact and uplifting our fellow peers (the list goes on). Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. falls in line with core values of not just the Obama's but America. It's not about excluding anyone, or organization. Can we take the envy out of this momentous occasion? There can only be one "first" and Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. was and always will be the first and finest. She is not the first high profile honorary member and she won’t be the last. There is no discrimination, contrary to what many may believe. Myths and lies breed ignorance. Does the name Eleanor Roosevelt, Rosa Parks, Coretta Scott King, Alicia Keys sound familiar? If you don’t know or understand the connection, I advise you conduct some research. This is a serious honor, and despite what some may believe, she is deserving. Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. is an organization that sets standards, status quos, protégés, and trends, for the rest we appreciation the compliments, imitation is indeed the best compliment but everyone knows, we can’t be duplicated. I’m honored to have Mitchell Obama as my Soror. At the end of the day we are all sisters in service. God bless America and everywhere else!!!

"1" and Only
Miss. Drama

It is amazing to read the comments from so man black people bickering over black greek organizations. It is just a sad reflection of how lost we are as a people when we claim brotherhood or sisterhood under the banner of Greek letter organizations. Instead of joining together as a true "family" to rediscover our African roots, we clutch to our wannabe white sorority or fraternity organizations. No matter how much you try to "blacken" them up, they are all rooted in the fact that black college students wanted to be like their white peers and join Greek letter organizations but couldn't due to segregation and racism. I applaud the brothers and sisters that do good works within their organizations. However, those who want Greek letters for show or to resolve issues of insecurity need to just "step" off. It matters not which black Greek letter organization bestowed the honor upon Mrs. Obama -- we as a people have more important issues to worry about. Let us break down these artificial divisions that we have created amongst ourselves and truly join together as a family to improve our communities and provide a better future for our children and grandchildren. Peace and blessings to all.

I really saddens me how WE as a people are so easily divided. Division has been a tactic used to hold us down for far too long. Please people, instead of being so divisive look for the many things that we have in common. Yes, I am a PROUD member of Alpha Kappa Alpha but we were all Black women first. Make your sorority (or self) proud and show some maturity. Obama '08

Dawn-

Just a few things:
1- 1989 is not "old school" in everyone's eyes. Some were on for 6 months to a year. Truth be told, some "old school" members have expressed in some discussions that those of the 80's and pre- Summer 90 did not go as hard as they try to make folk believe just because of their pledge year.

2- "If you were not dressed alike, walked on line,knew your ace and your back, and your line was not under 25 u are paper. If you don't know all your sisters by first middle and last names, dont know their parents name or anything about them but their first name or their face you are paper."
What about those who came thru during the early 90's (especially at PWI's that really didn't have a clue of what the new MIP should have looked like) and meet the criteria you've laid out? Like I said, not all "old school" is really "old school". Bottom line is that your perspective is what make it hard to eliminate hazing. "Don't haze but I'm better than you because I'm telling you not to do what I did" - how schizo is that? Let's really mature folk - not just in age.
3- "She has only accepted the invitation, Our national president was the first to defend the Obama's in regards to the cover of the New Yorker magazine, where were the others? "
Umm - did you see the interview on Larry King w/ Obama? He was not as "outraged" as some people were about this cartoon. So just because the others orgs aren't shooting press releases around does not make them any less than your org.

So calm down, pump your brakes and take a breath.

I personally saw Michelle's invitation coming after that emotionally charged press release regarding the TN Republican ad. I could care less about her becoming a member of AKA. MY ONLY ISSUE IS TIMING. THIS IS A DELEICATE TIME FOR HER BECAUSE HER HUSBAND IS RUNNING FOR PRESIDENT - HELLO!!!

JUST BECAUSE WE ARE FAMILIAR WITH THE GOOD SUCH ORGS DO FOR THE COMMUNITY DOES NOT MEAN OTHERS ARE AS KNOWLEDGEABLE. HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU READ AN ARTICLE OR WATCHED A NEWS SHOW AND SAW FOLKS SPIN STUFF THAT WAS SO BLATANTLY WRONG? SHE WAS ALREADY DUBBED AS SOME BLACK PANTHER WHO JUST SORTA KINDA LIKE HER COUNTRY.

SO WHY JOIN A PREDOMINATELY BLACK ORG RIGHT NOW? "WE" KNOW THAT THEY DO NOT DISCRIMINATE, BUT YA'LL KNOW THE NEWS DON'T CARE ABOUT THE FACTS? IT'S ABOUT SENSATIONALISM - SO WHY GIVE THEM MORE MATERIAL.

If Michelle wants to join AKA, its her business - I just preferred that she had waited until after Nov. 4. We have to stop thinking in our box and acknowledge that not everyone will be as logical as we are. C'MON - PEOPLE STILL THINK BARACK IS MUSLIM. DUH!

I cannot believe this - perhaps if I put it in all caps it might reach some of ya'll.

"DISAGREE" IS NOT SYNONYMOUS TO "ENVY". THOSE OF US WHO THINKS THAT THIS MAY NOT HAVE BEEN THE BEST TIME DOES NOT ENVY AKA. JUST AS ANY POLITICIAN OUGHT, WE ARE SEEING PAST BLACK GREEKDOM. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT BLACK GREEKS ARE NOT IMPORTANT, BUT WE MUST FACE THE FACTS - EVERYONE ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH YOUR ORG, NO MATTER HOW GREAT IT IS OR HOW MANY GOOD DEEDS IT'S RESPONSIBLE FOR.

Believing that ya'll have seem some news broadcasts, I hope that some of ya'll who keep missing this point realize that a person running for POTUS (and their family/inner circle) CANNOT just think about how things look to them. That's why the things they say and do have to be so calculated. Not that they wish to be fake - but they must mitigate as much damage as possible - kinda like risk management for campaigns.

I am laughing so hard at some of these paper comments. Who is to say she did not "earn" her way into the sorority. She is a strong black woman who is supporting her husband all the way to the white house while raising two beautiful children. Are you telling me she is not worthy? I guess you have to be beat with a heavy piece of wood, or tortured for weeks on end to earn something. Please. This is why people are losing respect for the so called "divine nine" now.

Congratulations Mrs. Michelle Obama. You will represent your sorority well, as you have represented your country. Good luck to you & your family. ArrrrrrrrRooF!

This is very interesting- those of us who use a public forum to shout out the 'wonders' of our individual sororities, yet end it with the statement 'but we are all here to serve and build the community'- it is amazing. It is the same reason why we cannot come together and REALLY make a difference; we are still, decades and decade later, arguing and trying to convince ourselves who is the best and what remains? A world full of what we term "non-greeks" who are not impressed by us at all. Hence the reason why we get members who are letter wearers or men and women who only want to be affiliated with an organization because, as we have read here, "I come from a long line of..". It is sad and it is this same old mentality that gets me stares in grocery stores from women old enough to be my grandmother's grandmother because I happen to be wearing letters different from hers. It is sad.

My honest opinion is that Michelle Obama should have refused because it would have been the correct thing, in my opinion, to do. An alliance to any organization or group of people, knowing how significant this election is, to me, is not wise. But will I still vote for her husband? Yes. Do I think that with her membership she will do great things and possibly inspire all sororities to work together? Yes, I hope so. The sad thing though is that some members, in my viewpoint, have taken her acceptance of membership to mean that AKA is the only great organization that she could have possibly wanted to be a member of...which of course proves the point that they have been trying to make for one century now- THEY ARE THE BEST (of course I don't believe that because there is no best for every person; an organization has to be the best to an individual based on what the individual needs and is willing to bring to the organization). But the saddest thing is that something that is so pivotal and potentially so productive is the same thing that continues to tear us apart- as sororities, as African-Americans, as people. Will it ever get better? Will we ever be able to see past colors (the same thing we ask other races to do constantly) to see each other for who we really are, which is supposed to be people who advocate and make change? According to these posts- I don't think so.

Many of you are ignorant too look past her desired affiliation with Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority. There are far more important things occuring in this world other than greek life. This should be a time were we all come together and support her greek or not. Not for sorority affiliation because she has the potential to be OUR voice. The voice of the low income, uneducated and uninsured community. If something as small as sorority affiliation would make you change your vote. You were NEVER down for the cause. This is exactly what America would love to see. Us, tearing each other down. Take Jessie Jackson last week for example. Apparently many of you do not watch the news or to dumb to read the paper daily to see whats going on in the world. Together we stand. Divided we fall.

Questions why do the AKA's always give they name away did she go to school?? i mean what is the point of the "process" if your just going to give it way to every famous female or women with money didnt yall just give it to A.Keys??

oh yeah congrats for the 100 ladies

It always seems that when Delta Sigma Theta is NOT in the spotlight, there is always some haterdry going on. And I'm not being negative, it is an observation that I have observed many times. I did not hear anything negative from the AKAs or any other black greek sorority when the Deltas asked Halle Berry to accept an honorary membership AFTER she won an oscar...when the movie, her role and her performance for which she won an oscar was...mediocre at best....first black woman to win a best actress oscar or not, the movie was not great. Halle is not a good actress, in my opinon....but that invitation can be intrepreted as a "bandwagon" invitation. But nobody hated...and I think she turned down the invitation. Anyway, just by reading most of these comments, I can tell most, not all, but most of the commenters no nothing about black greek organizations and life. And being able to recite a stereotype only makes you more ignorant, not knowledgeable. I am a firm believer that if you are secure in yourself and the sorority you chose, then you have no time or energy to worry about the activities of another sorority and you definitely dont have time to hate, bad-mouth or spread negativity....you should be busy upholding your shield. Lastly, I really dont know how the issue of Paper vs. Non-paper (Pledge) came up, but I must say that the people who hold so tightly to the fact they "pledged" are usually the ones who drop their shield, compromise their sister/brotherhood in some way and become non-financial/inactive AFTER they cross the burning sands. You may have known your ls's/lb's better than they knew themselves or could recite Invictus forward and backward, and you may have gone thru 8 weeks of hell, but is that where your service ended???? Sadly, for most of you with that mentality, it did. And you have nothing more to offer but your "when I was on line" stories. And dont get it twisted, I was pledged, BUT, I continue to provide service to all mankind through my sorority.

Not to mentione....job outsourcing, shortage of food....we definitely need deliverance form this the Bush and the Gang

"It always seems that when Delta Sigma Theta is NOT in the spotlight, there is always some haterdry going on."

You do know the same can be said about AKA, right? But the good thing is that there are members of each of your orgs' that prove this statement - whether said about AKA or DST - wrong.

You know what - I actually read posts by members of DST in the blog related to the article on NYTime about this who spoke very positive about your org - but let me guess - there's some alterior motive for the respect they paid to your org.

Bottom line - SOME OF YOU GREEKS NEED TO GET YOUR HEADS OUT OF YOUR BEHINDS!!!!!! YOU MAKE SUCH PETTY, TIT FOR TAT POSTS AND WONDER WHY PEOPLE QUESTION BGLOS RELEVANCY!!!!!!

JUST STOP THE PETTINESS! SOMEBODY, ANYBODY ~ STOP THE MADNESS!

PIAPD - YOUR POST JUST SPAT ON POSTS LIKE THOSE POSTED BY STL_DST.