Michelle Obama ♥ AKA but ...

Does this mean she'll be wearing a pink and green camouflage now? ;-)

This is a perfect time for the rabid to attack and prove the New Yorkers satire correct. The politics of fear and smear.

Is this called segregation?

I smell Sororitygate!!!

I am very proud of my new sorority sister Michelle Obama. I am currently in D.C. with the other 25,000 out of 200,000 beautiful and educated women of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated.Why wouldn't the First Lady to be become a member the First Sorority?! I look forward to supporting them ALL the way to the White House.

This is ridiculous! Why accept the honor in the first place. She should have just supported them as a neutral party...it just doesn't make sense. I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta and I cannot imagine that another organization, especially mine, would want to bestow that honor on her after she has already accepted one. That is not how it works. I am just further disappointed! She should have just stayed neutral and respected us all in that manner.

This is absolutely ridiculous! If she respected all of the organizations she should have just stayed neutral. I understand her willingness to support AKA and their monumental milestone but she could have done that as an outsider.
I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta and I could not imagine that any organization, including mine, would want to bestow that honor on her after she has already accepted one. It just doesn't work that way. Once you accept membership into on of the Divine Nine Orgs it is EXCLUSIVE and for life!
She should have just supported us all by staying neutral instead of doing something like this at the WRONG TIME!

This "HONORARY" gesture is just that; "HONORARY". It is no different than Bill Cosby, a graduate of Temple, accepting an "HONORARY" degree from Harvard. It is symbolic, not a real membership. Everyone needs to just "CHILL"

To Que Psi Phi, that's not true at all. Honorary membership IS "real membership" and is not the same as getting an honorary degree. Honorary members take the same oath as other members, are inducted, and can be made privy to the organization's confidential information, the same as other members. The difference is (and things may vary from org to org), these members are invited to join based on their outstanding accomplishments and they do not having voting power (although this may also vary from org to org). Some honoraries even choose to be involved in their local alumnae chapters. There is one in my chapter (SGRho) and we treat her like any other soror.

This was not a good judgement call for Michelle Obama. I will not support her on this one. "Honorary" to AKA means you were at least in a Geico commercial. They hand out honorary memberships like they are going out of style. It's a joke to call it prestigious. Obviously Michelle Obama knows nothing about sororities to make the non-exclusive comment and obviously AKA doesn't care. Wait a minute, its starting to make sense now. It may be a good union after all. Talk about standards. Imagine this type of judgement in the White House. I think I will take a second look at McCain.

Pretty in Pink, I would think a soroity sister would be able to write without making errors. Please go back to college and learn to write.

I think further clarification is needed. Reading the NYTimes article, it isn't clear if she wants to be able to join other orgs or be able to simply work with other orgs.

Keep in mind that her spokesperson may not fully understand Black Greekdom - not realizing that the exclusivity issue is about membership and not her ability to work collaboratively with others.

Lost my vote. The movement toward the middle; deceptive tortured explanation of the 2nd Amendment; Booker T. speeches and, now, his wife, Michelle, makes this alienating move. And yes, I am serious. She should have stayed neutral -and the non-exclusive caveat just shows a lack of understanding of historically black sororities; while purposes overlapp, they are each unique, having, among other features, divergent secrets - exclusivity is, thus, a basic premise of joining.

She didn't do it in college... she hasn't one anything to make her worthy yet. Eleanor Roosevelt deserved her honorary membership into our sorority. Michelle Obama obviously does not understand the honor if she's willing to be open to others... I say let her be a dirty red then... won't be the first time she and her husband flip flopped on issues...

I am in total shock. I cannot believe that Alpha Kappa Alpha would extend membership to Mrs. Obama ONLY because there is a chance that she might be the first black first lady. It seems that everyone wants to jump on the bandwagon. if the really wanted her, why haven't they asked her years ago.....I guess their timing is right because they waited until the 100th year celebration to do it......

I'm having a hard time understanding why this is making people soooo upset. Her membership in Alpha Kappa Alpha does not have anything to do with...well - anything. I think that as members of the Divine 9 - Soror Michelle Obama should be congratulated. We (members of historically black greek letter orgs) should be uplifting her with kind words and prayer. Not tearing her down and attemting to steal her thunder. Of all the issues in this world to be upset about...this is the one you choose - - - As far as the idea of other orgs offering Soror Michelle Obama membership - well - you are probably just a little frustrated because she is now a member of THE FIRST AND THE FINEST~THIS IS A SEEEERRRRRRRRIOS MATTER!!!!! AKA~CELEBRATING 100 YEARS

I'm not sure if I am reading the same passage as the rest of you. She is saying that she will not only work with the beautiful ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha but will work with anyone who is willing to work to enhance the community. Non-exclusive means that she is not closed to WORKING with other sororities. I think the lovely ladies of Delta Sigma Theta are jumping the gun AGAIN and not looking at what the passage is saying but rather making their own meaning for some stange reason. If Michelle Obama makes you want to vote for McCain then you are too ignorant for anything that I may have to say to change your mind. She is has accepted membership into a sorority not a terrorist group...just relax. Princeton did not have an undergraduate chapter while she was in college and now is her opportunity. At the end of the day she is an educated and sophisticated black woman. Don't we at least have that in common? If not you might want to do a mirror check! Alpha Kappa Alpha women do it best but it wouldn't hurt some of you others to evaluate where you stand in life!

Keep in mind Elenore Roosevelt, Rosa Parks and Corretta Scott King all received and accepted this same honor. The sorority is historically black but as Elenore
Roosevelt would attest ...It is not exclusively black

To Sharon,

Please respect your sorority (AKA) by presenting yourself in a respectful manner when referring to other Greeks. DO NOT refer to us as "Dirty Red". The name is Delta Sigma Theta

To Sharon,

Please respect your Sorority (AKA) as well as mine by referring to other Greek Orgs in a respectful manner. DO NOT refer to us as "Dirty Red", the name is DELTA SIGMA THETA. Kindly show some maturity (if that's possible)

I am an AKA and yes, I'm glad that Michelle Obama accepted the invitation. I'll be happy to call her Soror. I would be just as happy if she had accepted DST's, SGRho's, or ZPhiB's invitation because what it shows me is that she hasn't forgotten the Divine Nine and the Higher Purpose we all serve. I think at times we forget that and get caught up in petty things regarding which organization is better. We have to keep in mind that when we do compare and put down eachother, we are comparing Apples to Oranges. I say that because while we all are service organizations attempting to serve our communties, we have different approaches and different ways of serving a higher purpose. As members of the Divine Nine we need to celebrate each time we do have an Honorary join us as it only makes us stronger. We wouldn't be where we are without the support of eachother. I think Michelle made a great decision by becoming one of US (the Divine Nine) and I know that WE (the Divine Nine) are going to do everything we can to support OUR new Soror in their push for the White House! Let's bring change and make a difference!!!

I have love for the Obamas, I am a major supporter, however as a non member of the greek life that was an asinine move of Michelle Obama. I am truly incredulous of my voting decision at this point. That was a wrong politically move of her.

If anything she should have joined a much more community based--not "my husband is important and I am too" (e.g. Coretta Scott-King)based organization such as Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc.

So the AKAs are still giving out their letters for no reason. Just adding to the looonnnggg lineage of PAPER members. Ahhh its so sad that people would give away their letters to people who didn't earn them. I guess different strokes for different folks lol

Haters hate. The negative comments and spelling errors are taking up space. I am rolling as I laugh at you all carry on with yours and your ignorance. Soror Obama WILL serve "ALL MANKIND."

And why is this an issue? I think you folks take yourself and your sorority way too seriously. She is accepting the honorary membership. She supports the goals of the soroity. Can only see this as a good thing.

So this non-exclusive honorary membership entitles her to join DST, ZphiB, and SGRho? That is what happens when you hand out letters to anyone to boast your roster of members. When we will see an offiical press release?

To Sharon and Shawn and all of the others that said because of Mrs. Obama's decision, they are going to vote the other way.... STAY HOME ON THE DAY OF ELECTION! GROW UP!!! If you really had some sense, you would not let a small issue like honorary membership into an organization be the deciding factor of your vote for someone who will be controlling our lives in the next four years. Vote for the real ISSUES that effect our lives on a day-to-day basis. As a member of Delta Sigma Theta, I honestly thought, "you know what? The AKAs did that?" But now hearing that she's only accepting the invitation as a non-exclusive member, that was a bad call on the part of the sorority, not Michelle Obama. Point blank, she obviously doesn't understand the exclusiveness of membership into the Divine 9. It should have been the responsibility of AKA to let her know and tell her that membership has always been and always will be exclusive. Didn't the same thing happen when they tried getting Hilary Clinton at one point? Why change your protocols for Michelle? You know what? Thinking about it some more... She just really wants to be a Delta!

Wow? If this doesn't expose problems within the "Divine Nine," I don't know what else does. The long-standing rivalry between Deltas and AKAs is supposed to be lighthearted fun, like a USC vs. UCLA football game. But, this... I forwarded the story to a non-Greek friend of mine and she was absolutely astounded by the vitriolic nature of the comments. And, there was no way I could defend us. I am a Delta, but larger, I, you -- we are all adults who seek and want the best for ourselves and our communities... if we didn't, we wouldn't have joined any of the other organizations. We need to do better, ladies. We really do.

In a true spirit of love,

moDiva

I guess the one thing that needs clarification is Michelle's reasoning behind the "non-exclusive" comment. Until that is clarified all that is being said is hearsay and assumption.

My only thing is, either you are a member or you arent... NO IN BETWEEN

thats why im glad my noble klan doesnt have honorary members... too much room for drama.

and ladies the back and forth on here does not reflect that of which you claim to represent. We all have varying opinions and thats cool but the name calling and negative comments about other orgs. is childish. (and we wonder why we are in the state of affairs we are in now, even the "talented tenth" cant get along)

Obviously she wanted to be an AKA. No disrespect to DST, SGP, or Zeta. We are all great organizations but Michelle can't have it all. No other Sorority will bestow Honorary upon her and she knows that....She was just trying not to offend the others.

Okay, Okay, people! Let’s settle a few things now so they can be resolved. There is no “hating” from my organization at all as a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta I come from long linage of woman who paved the roads with blood, sweat, and tears to bring social awareness to the black community. After all we are the FIRST Social action and politically involved INCORPORATED SORORITY to fight for the rights of woman and the black community.

Delta Sigma Theta is second to none, as we stand on the arms of:

Shirley Chisholm, the first Black woman member of the U.S. Congress, who was also the first African American and first woman to run as a major party candidate for the presidency of the United States.

Mary Church Terrell was the first African American chosen to represent the United States Congress of Women and to serve on the board of education of a major city.

Dorothy I. Height, Ph.D., was appointed by President Carter to the Presidential Commission on a National Agenda for the 1980s. She has served as president of the National Council of Negro Women for over 40 years.

Barbara Jordan was the first African-American to serve in the U.S. congress from the South since reconstruction; first Black woman to preside over a state senate; and the first Black person to deliver the keynote address at the Democratic National Convention.

Carol Moseley-Braun became the first African-American female ever elected to the U.S. Senate (Illinois) in 1992. She served as the U.S. ambassador to New Zealand from 1999-2001 under appointment from President Bill Clinton and in 2003, began a run for the Democratic nomination for president.

Patricia Roberts-Harris was the first African-American woman to serve as an ambassador, representing the U.S. in Luxembourg under President Lyndon B. Johnson

Just to name a few…. This is not about (for me) what organization Mrs. Obama chose to be affiliated with as I personally still admire her strength and contribution to this cause. However, I do agree that the statement can be interpreted many different ways…one of those being “non-exclusively” associated… which I believe to be quite disrespectful. If what she meant was… “I will still work with other organizations to uphold their agendas”…then simply put that is what she should have said (or her spokesperson rather). She may have a degree from Princeton and a J.D. from Yale but clearly that package didn’t come with common sense. Additionally, what is even more disappointing is she will not even be present at their ceremony…so in fact is she even “non-exclusively” a member? My thoughts are she should have remained neutral until she could have made an “exclusive decision” …or just gracefully decline.

Who cares which organization she's in?? Although I do think it was a little weird for her to say he membership is non-exclusive. There is no such thing as non-exclusive membership in the Divine Nine. You are what you are. That would be like a Delta becoming a member in undergrad and then after she crosses those burning sands into Delta land she say's; "I think I'll Skeeeeweeeee instead"! LOL it just wouldn't happen. She is now a member Alpha Kappa Alpha, may she wear her Paper with pride.

"Yes We Can"

Okay, Okay, people! Let’s settle a few things now so they can be resolved. There is no “hating” from my organization at all as a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta I come from long linage of woman who paved the roads with blood, sweat, and tears to bring social awareness to the black community. After all we are the FIRST Social action and politically involved INCORPORATED SORORITY to fight for the rights of woman and the black community.

Delta Sigma Theta is second to none, as we stand on the arms of:

Shirley Chisholm, the first Black woman member of the U.S. Congress, who was also the first African American and first woman to run as a major party candidate for the presidency of the United States.

Mary Church Terrell was the first African American chosen to represent the United States Congress of Women and to serve on the board of education of a major city.

Dorothy I. Height, Ph.D., was appointed by President Carter to the Presidential Commission on a National Agenda for the 1980s. She has served as president of the National Council of Negro Women for over 40 years.

Barbara Jordan was the first African-American to serve in the U.S. congress from the South since reconstruction; first Black woman to preside over a state senate; and the first Black person to deliver the keynote address at the Democratic National Convention.

Carol Moseley-Braun became the first African-American female ever elected to the U.S. Senate (Illinois) in 1992. She served as the U.S. ambassador to New Zealand from 1999-2001 under appointment from President Bill Clinton and in 2003, began a run for the Democratic nomination for president.

Patricia Roberts-Harris was the first African-American woman to serve as an ambassador, representing the U.S. in Luxembourg under President Lyndon B. Johnson

Just to name a few…. This is not about (for me) what organization Mrs. Obama chose to be affiliated with as I personally still admire her strength and contribution to this cause. However, I do agree that the statement can be interpreted many different ways…one of those being “non-exclusively” associated… which I believe to be quite disrespectful. If what she meant was… “I will still work with other organizations to uphold their agendas”…then simply put that is what she should have said (or her spokesperson rather). She may have a degree from Princeton and a J.D. from Yale but clearly that package didn’t come with common sense. Additionally, what is even more disappointing is she will not even be present at their ceremony…so in fact is she even “non-exclusively” a member? My thoughts are she should have remained neutral until she could have made an “exclusive decision” …or just gracefully decline.

Right now I think Michelle is caught up in the hype. I predict she will soon reject their invitation just like Hillary Clinton did.

To the AKA's: Mrs. Obama has at this point accepted the invitation but has not yet been inducted so you should respect your organization and not call her soror yet. For those non-greeks who say we take our organizations too seriously, you have no idea what we're about. Contrary to what some believe, most active members are in alumnae/grad chapters, not undergrad. This means that members juggle being parents, going back to school in some cases, having a personal life, and running their organizations all at the same time. Yes, it's the alumnae chapters that run the organizations and handle the business. If that's not serious, I don't know what is. If you're on the outside looking in, you have no right to speak on it...period.

For those of you that are more concerned with her affiliation to any particular sorority to the point where it has discourage you to vote for her husband, not HER, for president, really need to take a step back for a reality check. The focus is to bring our community together, not what greek organization is the best.

I am a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated and would appreciate if other members, Sorors, will STOP referring to her as "Soror Michelle Obama". She has ACCEPTED the invitation into our illustrious sisterhood, not INDUCTED. For her publicist to come up with this "non-exclusive" thing is bogus. In the world of Greekdom, we all know that honorary membership is an exclusive membership. Prime example: Sen. Hillary Clinton declined the invitation because it would exclude her from membership into other sororities. I can agree to a certain extent of the "bandwagon" jumping because it's mighty funny she accepted the invitation, when she could have simply joined a graduate chapter. With our Centennial and her husband possibly becoming the first black president, it seems suspect. She should have remained neutral and supported ALL organizations, as she stated. For those who want to comment about how we take our organizations "too seriously", you will never understand because you aren't a member.

Alpha Kappa Alpha,
Yes, I do agree she should have stayed neutral unless she always wanted to be an AKA, i do not know why but hey suit yourself. As a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority inc. I have never seen an organization just pop just pop up and make someone an honorary member of an organization to me this looks like a publicity stunt thought of by Alpha kappa Alpha in the hopes that she will be the first black woman president; to go along with the whole first thing but sorry i would have at least waited until the man Mr. Barack Obama got into office dang.

THIS IS THE REAL RESPONSE!!!!
I pray for the diving nine. As a member of ALPHA PHI ALPHA I’m disappointed in this display of ignorance. All nine of the divine nine organizations could rattle off a laundry list of our prestigious members…that’s what makes us divine. Our intelligence, intellect, tact, and passion for justice, and equality…that’s what makes us divine. Our desire to affect change DAMN YALL be for real…that’s what makes us divine. In a sense we are all in this together. I believe emphatically that I am a member of the best and brightest organization in the world. But that does not give me grounds to destroy any others with my words or deeds. DAMN I’m sick to my stomach on the coo. How did we fall to this? Everyone should go and review their history, NPHC was established for a reason. The Civil Rights Movement, and every major black movement in American History was spearheaded by members of OUR organizations. Collaborative efforts that changed the course of history, and not just ONE group. As far as being offended by the outsiders looking in…they have every right to comment. When we make a mockery out of what we stand for, and give them room to misjudge who we are we can not be angered by their confused and angry responses. There is nothing divine about these comments, or our attitudes. Come on soror’s yall are better than that. As for the D’s yall kno your better than that too. I can’t stand to see educated black women fighting each other (unless its over me lol) but on the coo 200 years of slavery, oppression, discrimination, lynching’s, and unimaginable brutalities are still not enough to bring us together? Those of you who continue in this ignorance must have not completed the journey across the sands…it represents enlightening and empowerment lets not continue to disgrace the founders of our prestigious organizations…on the coo yall know better than to solicit votes for McCain on here. You going be looking stupid when the gas prices be sitting at $1,906 a gallon lol. As for those of you who are not familiar with what the divine nine is, please don’t misjudge any of these organizations based on these ignorant comments every family has a few crack heads that show up to the family reunion each year. Lets keep in mind that there was a time where the only two colors that mattered was black and white (that’s not intended to offend my white brothers and sisters lol) But on the coo lets stop with the self sabotage.

This is really sad!! To read some of the comments you all are making.
At a time when the future of not only Black America but America period is uncertain,
All you can think about is what color this lady is willing to wear.
Come on, raise your level of thinking and stop letting so much division come between us.
We are here in the moment, at a point in history that all of the Founders could have only dreamed of, and this is how we’re behaving? We have to do better.

For the members of other organizations who dare position their fingers to reference my organization's membership practices...please check yourself.

The "paper" comments and who is bestowed honorary membership is, basically put, none of your business. Not to mention that people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. My sorors and I work hard...every day for Alpha Kappa Alpha. Please don't get caught up in the hype of Mrs. Obama. Check our website. Honorary memberships are given to women of standard who make a difference within their communities and uphold the legacy of AKA. They are not always of celebrity status. However, even when they are well-known, these women still uphold our goals. Michelle Obama is not just the Senator's wife. Not only did she succeed, to the dismay of some, in an Ivy League Istitution, but her community service efforts surpass most. Wikipedia her, and us, before you speak of what you dont know!

The same can be said for YOUR honorary members. The list is just as long: Mary McLeod Bethune, Nancy Wilson, Camille Cosby, Ruby Dee, Aretha Franklin, Nikki Giovanni, Lena Horne, Berverly Sills, Cicely Tyson, Betty Shabazz, and Shirley Caesar Williams, etc... "google search 2008"

Please dont pretend as if your organization don't have some of the same practices as others...At the end of the day, we have a common goal. So when you put us down, you're kicking yourself as well.

I would agree that the AKA's should chill on calling Michele an AKA already. She accepted the invite but hasnt been inducted. I think some of the sorors need to learn to keep there mouths shut as this was started by there members plastering the news all over Facebook and other social sites.

If Michele doesnt agree to be inducted, then AKA will look well a tad bit silly.

Just my
.06 cents.

I did not have the opportunity to attend college.
I made sure that my daughter was exposed to
the “Divine Nine” as a sophomore and a junior in
high school we worked closely with the three most
popular sorority on community services activity.
She spent her senior year participating in a debutante program.
But after reading some of these comments posted by
supposedly grown and educated women, stating that
“Senator Obama has lost their vote because of this.”
I’m telling my daughter to run in the opposite direction
from this cult like mind set. Not one of these originations
are more important then the future of our children or our
nation. SHAME on you!! You’d vote for a third Bush term.
You all have probably seen the movie. My mantra is now:

RUN FORREST RUN!!

So there's goes another AKA who will be apart of another Sorority....I'm seeing 1913 all over again HUH ;)

Way to go Michelle Obama. On behalf of the First Family (Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.), I would like to welcome you to the land of greekdom. Continue to strive and expect nothing but the best. You are our First Lady and on November 4, 2008, the country will accept you as theirs too. Hold up the light.

I am a proud member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. and I am thrilled about this. I am thrilled that Mrs. Obama has decided to join the Divine Nine. I really could care less which one she joined..I am just glad she joined. We are all different but strive for the same overall goals and that is all that matters in the end. We can all co-exist together and I sincerely do not understand why some of these people are so upset. This is the same ugly spirit that keeps racism going that keeps us divided in one way or another. Stop the madness! I almost wonder if all these people posting are actually Greek or if they are posers hiding behind a computer screen. Anywho, Mrs. Obama and her husband are pioneers and I am thrilled for them and the ladies of AKA. OBAMA '08!

I don't understand why this is a big issue! The remarks about being paper?! The name calling!!!....Come on grow up! I feel as though people are taking this out of hand....Let her live her life...If she wants to be apart of Alpha Kappa Alpha... let her...If Paris Hilton wants to make sex videos...let her....If Lindsey Lohan wants to do drugs...let her! Let people live their life! Just because she joined a sorority does not mean it will change anything....Her husband is running for president...not her...

I'n not a member of the Divine Nine. I need you guys to clear something up for me. What's the difference in pledging grad or becoming an honorary member?

I'm not a member of any sorority but I plan to cross in the near future. I come from a line of AKA's. Not only was my Mother disheartened when she read these comments, but so was my Grandmother. To hear comments that have been made by AKA and DST, I am ashamed for you. We as Black women need to stick together and uplift one another. I think Mrs. Obama is just trying to show support for all women, not only AKA's, (who come in many different shades and colors) but any organization that stands for a just cause. Even if she chooses not to become a member I will still support her. Stop downing each other and continue to support the Obama's! Obama '08!!!!!!

There is a hilarious writeup about Michelle Obama and 'AKA Barbie' both coming into the sorority over at www.mokellyreport.blogspot.com

It applies to the discussion here but doesn't seem to be as meanspirited as many of these comments are.

Just sharing...

Mrs. Obama made the correct choice. I take it that none of you were in Hall B on Sunday at 4pm in the convention center because if you were, you would know that she ACCEPTED her membership and she will be official after her process is complete. We can think of her being in probate practice now :)

Its amazing how you all carry on about this story. She is a black woman from the Southside of Chicago. Don't you all think she knows she can't be in other sororities? She will help other sororities but when she dies, she will be an ivy beyond the wall.

If you were NOT there, I encourage you to go to AKA1908.com and watch the webcast of the public meeting and get your misconceptions cleared up.

And remember, ALL OF YOUR FOUNDERS PLEDGED UNDER MINE. Respect your roots.

Just my .08 cents!

please correct me if i'm wrong but delta's and aka's aren't rivals. she didn't "dis" one sorority for another. she didn't get jumped in so that she could fight the rival gang. this is an honor. why people are saying she should have stayed neutral baffles me. please tell me why

That's nice, but I bet they didn't expect that whole non-exclusive stipulation. Love to see how this pans out...

Wow! These were words people! Poor choice...perhaps, but words nonetheless. Words spoken by an Obama rep. It’s as if you presumably educated folk are grasping at straws to find whatever fault you can with these words. How about we do this…not as men, women, members of BGLO, but as humans…show Mrs. Obama the love and respect that she RIGHTFULLY deserves. And make her feel that she is welcomed.

Also you ALL need to relax. I understand you love and our committed to your own respective orgs, but maybe Michelle isn't familiar with the protocol and to hold that against her is immature and childish. If I learn that people will stop supporting them over this... its not her who has the problem.

WAKE UP MY PEOPLE!!

Hold your horses, people! I am a proud Delta (spr 92), and the best friend of a proud AKA (spr 90). I absolutely extended congrats to my best friend when she sent a majorly braggadocious text to me from their Boule in D.C. all about Mrs. Obama becoming an AKA. I am not hating at all- Michelle Obama is an awesome woman, and I am sure that any of our organizations would be honored to have gotten to her first. So, I am big girl enough to give props when they are due. . . . . .

. . .Props IF and ONLY IF she actually gets inducted. Look. Michelle Obama lived on the Southside of Chicago. Does anyone REALLY think she doesn't understand that being an AKA is mutually exclusive with being anything else in the Divine 9??? Please! Mrs. Obama is trying to backtrack because she realizes that declaring membership to any one organization during the eye of the campaign is not a smart move. Much like when HILLARY told AKA yes and backtracked. (Remember that, AKAs?) I believe that she is likely not going to be inducted. (Many of my AKA friends agree with me.) Besides, after their wonderful Centennial celebration, I doubt that AKA would be willing to induct her without the clear expectation that it be exclusive, and that she declare that. Otherwise you might see her in pink, green and blue! (Wouldn't have to worry about Delta asking her after that, but I can't speak for the rest! LOL!)

As for folks saying she is not deserving of honorary membership- that is just folks hating. Check her story! Michelle Obama is live as heck, and I think there is nothing wrong with AKA inviting her. She is quite a woman.

Lastly, advice to my AKA friends and greek sisters. . . .PLEASE do not talk any more trash or write things like "this is a seerrrrr-ious matter" until the woman gets inducted as an AKA. Otherwise, you will have lots of egg on your pretty little faces. . .hee hee. We held off on bragging when Halle Berry "accepted" our 2003 invitation. Is Halle Berry a Delta? Aaahhh, that would be a "NO." (Told my best friend I'd give her $100 if Obama gets inducted. I think I will be just fine!) The only thing official is Barbie doll at this point. LOL!

Take home message: "ACCEPTED" does not equal "INDUCTED." I am really rooting for y'all. . . good luck with that, AKAs. . .LOL

I am embarassed to read these comments I'd rather some of you to stay at home then to vote for McCain because of a membership from Michelle. She is one of the sharpest ladies ive ever seen and the comments ive read are straight up ignorant are yall sure yall went to college let along displayed leadership skills to become greek?

I am not greek but clearly londyn needs to do reserach before listing honorary members of DST. DR. Betty Shabazz was a charter member of North, Manh. chapter of DST. and a few listed even pledge at Howard. proven again .first and finest..please.. come correct of you want to talk about DST

Folks reading. . . .this is just good clean fun. Trust me, we are all college educated, committed African-americans talking about something of interest to us. Relax. We all plan to vote, and I doubt that, no matter how passionate, these comments represent anything other than good ol' fashioned water cooler talk. Relax.

Please don't believe that any of us wouldn't support the Senator (Obama) because of Michele being inducted into AKA! Relax already!

And for the record- we definitely are NOT rivals (AKA and Delta.) We go waaaaay back, and so there is always some fun banter between us. Make no mistake. We are all committed to improving the world. Period. Historically, Delta Sigma Theta was founded as a more service oriented organization (any AKA can tell you that) - but this does not mean that the AKAs are not doing wonderful and important things in the community every single day. We are all doing the doggone thang! Because of this history, the organizations are just very different, and members are very passionate and fiercely loyal. The personalities of the members are interestingly different, too. Some of my sorority sisters were a little surprised not because AKA isn't an awesome organization, but Mrs. Obama just struck them as, well, "more Delta" to them.
To quote my best friend (an AKA):
"AKAs are ladies. . .Deltas are WOMEN." (Verbatim quote- TOTALLY AGREE) I am really not being mean, I promise- but Mrs. MCCAIN seems more like a "pretty girl in twenty pearls" than Mrs. Obama. I can see her with the mirror out doing the whole prissy-look-in-the-mirror thing now. I see Mrs. Obama lobbying somewhere or founding a college. . . .I'm just saying! Y'all don't have to admit it, but I KNOW you secretly agree! LOL!

Soooo. . . .from a grown-a Delta WOMAN, at the end of the day, regardless of our trashtalking, it is nothing but love for the OBAMAS, the AKAs (YES, I SAID IT) and all of our other greek and non-Greek brothers and sisters. This is just a fun discussion. RELAX! (But the Mrs. McCain joke was funny. .. . .)

People please grow up! I keep reading comments from other organizations who say that Alpha Kappa Alpha is only inviting her because she will possibly be first lady. Well that only shows that that is the only reason your organization would accept her. Maybe before you write such things for the world to see you should try looking up info on possibly your first lady and find that there is more to her than just being Obama's wife!!!

I can't believe thism is being discussed. How immature are the people who are against Michelle becoming an honorary member. I see you in the same light as I see the media (cnn,msnbc) a joke. Always looking to create problems and evoke fear. Grow up get over it and stick to real issue facing black america. Our young men are dying by the dozens in the streets everyday as well as filling our prisons until they are overflowing.

Hi all, just wanted to say that I believe too many of you are reading too far into what Mrs. Obama was supposedly quoted as having said. As we know from many articles written about our favorite celebs, the writers add to the story or take away from. You all know that our President, Soror Barbara McKinzie made it clear to Mrs. Obama what honorary membership entailed. None of you know whether or not she wanted to pledge undergrad but never had the opportunity and now once presented with honorary membership, she jumped at the chance. I think it was VERY smart move on all involved. What I read was Mrs. Obama saying "hell yes I want to be an AKA, but I'm not going to leave my other sistergreeks hanging". I don’t think she was saying that she would accept membership into Alpha Kappa Alpha, and if the ladies of Delta Sigma Theta called she would take it too.

We spend too much time arguing over petty stuff like this and then people are ready to change their voting decision because she wants to be down with my sorority??? How absurd!!! We want her because she is an OUTSTANDING representation of what our sorority was built on. While many Sorors support Barack, I am certain that there are others who do not. Her decision to join Alpha Kappa Alpha should not hinder her husband becoming the First African-American president. Let’s stop the hating and get back to the issues at center of the election and let’s make history in 2008!

Hello People,

I think that this was definitely a good look for the ladies of AKA. Bravo! Furthermore, if Mrs. Obama wanted to be a member, than I am happy for her as well. Bravo again! That's excellent -- should she be inducted this would be a win win situation for both parties! In life, we are all given the blessing of choice.

In terms of timeliness.... I agree that this seems a little suspect/opportunistic, but ton pis (oh well)! Such is life... If this is propaganda than it still isn't something that is big enough to suggest that her husband is worthy of assuming the role as President. Many people have made such remarks and I think that it is just ridiculous! I am ready for a change and Mr. and Mrs. Obama have articulated a vision for our future that is consistent with my own vision.

I think that all of the Greek members of D9 should focus on the contributions that they can make towards their respective organization's goals instead of throwing salt on anyone else. Although Mrs. Obama had an excellent career as an attorney and community leader, most D9 organizations have members who ACTUALLY pledged and have similar credentials! So what is the drama about? If this is about the fact that she may become the first black First Lady... how about one of you people who are so irritated strive to be the first black female President (which would be more impressive) and represent us as black women and/or your organization in that fashion as well.

Mrs. Obama's decision to become an Honorary member of one organization doesn't take away the legacy of any other and if you earnestly believe in the legacy of your respective organization as well as its purpose then you should be shaped to that purpose! Don't be a hater. It's disgusting.

On a side note, I also agree that the person who posted under the name Londyn referenced wikipedia like it was an official source of information. ANYONE can post information on a wiki site. Wikis are a system of information sharing designed with the purpose of giving users the ability to update information frequently. Some of the people that you listed were not honorary members. In addition some were people who were allies of the members of DST while the Sorority was in its early stages which given the context of time is different than women w/o having any affiliation being asked to become members. Those women such as Mary McLeod Bethune, were bestowed honorary membership based on their contributions to service as well as the commitment the ideals and goals of the organization which were displayed by alliances already built. Ultimately, this is why it is important to have a process where potential members learn the histories of all organizations so that they are not ignorant about the changes that we have effected as a PEOPLE. The work that we are all doing is about improving the social disparities that marginalized people face!! If you can't get that then you need to renounce your own letters...

God bless all those people (Greek or Non-Greek) who are dedicated to changing this world. We must remember that to whom much is given much is required -- so we must all use our privilege and power to help one another, not to degrade ourselves or each other.

Sisterly,
G Diva :)

I'm sitting here in my cubicle reading the comments and shaking my head in disbelief as you ladies go back and forth about your sororities. I'm not greek (although hubby and brother -in-law are Omegas, nephew a Kappa, niece, sister-in-law and best friend are AKA's,etc.) but I feel I can still post my opinion. We have broader issues to consider such as the price of gas, home foreclosures, unemployment, healthcare, etc., instead of worrying about what sorority a presidential candidate's wife becomes affiliated with. It is embarassing to me as an african american woman to see you arguing about who's sorority is the best, "name dropping" about who's affiliated with your sorority, and on and on. At the end other day, neither of the "devine nine" will buy gas for me, stop my home from going into foreclosure, keep me from getting a pink slip, or pay my healthcare coverage. We need to be on our knees praying that God will sustain us the next few months and deliver us from George Bush.

As a soror of Alpha Kappa Alpha ( Spr.89) thats right old school, when pledging was pledging. I am so saddened to see you ladies tear each other down. All Divine Nine members have people who have received honary memberships into their organizations. Michelle Obama has not been inducted into Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc as yet, please do not call her soror because she has not passed through that gate. She has only accepted the invitation, Our national president was the first to defend the Obama's in regards to the cover of the New Yorker magazine, where were the others? why did they not speak out on this outrage? If you think for one moment that the National body of AKA just woke up yesterday and decided that they were going to extend her an invitation then you are crazy. This process started long ago, you are just being enlightened because it became public. The paper comments are commical because truth be told if u didn't cross before 89/90 we old school consider you paper! if u think an underground process sneaking and hiding gives you the right to call others paper it does not! If you were not dressed alike, walked on line,knew your ace and your back, and your line was not under 25 u are paper. If you don't know all your sisters by first middle and last names, dont know their parents name or anything about them but their first name or their face you are paper. lets get it straight. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. Stop the hating and work in your communities to get out the vote, that is what is most important at this time. If Michelle Obama is going to make you vote for John McCain then do so, but then don't complain when the gas gets to $6 and your family members are deployed forever. Let's not have the crabs in a barrel mentality over a simple invitation into one of the finest Divine Nine organizations.
This is a SERIOUS matter...

I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta, and my best friend of 19 years is a proud member of AKA. Yes, we poke fun at each other, but it is always done with a sisterly spirit. I am excited that Michelle Obama has decided to accept membership into AKA. I feel that everyone should be able to choose their organization. I love Delta, and, yes, I feel it is the best. The BEST for me, which does not mean it is the best for all. We are all different, and we should respect those differences. It saddens me to see fellow Greeks going at it on this site. We should all be united as we are typically the leaders in our communities, professions, and churches, and we have to lead by example. So congrats, Michelle, and congrats to the ladies of AKA on 100 years of sisterhood. Sorors, I will you in Orlando next week. -The Diva

To all the AKA's get over yourself. Try being proud of being a good person and not what you have to pay for. Many if not all of you have paid plenty for the privilege of you pride. If this has helped further your career then Kudos to you, but the real fact is your so called community activism is a joke at best. The Obama's are running on a platform of change. What change will come from joining an organization whose entire purpose is exclusivity and separation. Michelle has managed without the "pride" of the AKA,s and focused her money on what was truly important. As for those who say they didn't have a chapter at Princeton don't be simple minded. You know as well as I do if she wanted to join she could have done so at another chapter. Believe it or not AKA,s the world does go on without you.

Dawn,

Please note that if you have a daughter or plan to have a daughter that she will forever be considered "PAPER" in your eyes should she choose to join a sorority! Be careful with your words and stop spitting in the wind!

Just had to say that because you (and many, NOT ALL, 80's greeks) are so ignorant with that old skool bs! Some of you are the most "PAPER" in your actions and have YET to move on from college.

SIncerely,
FINANCIAL Delta for LIFE

P.S. The FIRST Black woman president of the United States of America will be a Delta who pledged in the 80's!

@Dawn

I dont think any of the other sororities got involved with defending the Obama's because as a tax-exempt organization, you are technically not supposed to cross that line into politics.

You never know what any of the orgs have done to defend her. Not everything is publicized you know.

And of course you all have been planning it for months now. But this is my question

Would she be an honorary member even if her husband wasn't running for the President

And her use of the words non-exclusive lead me to believe she would have accepted anybody's membership, you guys just beat everyone else to the punch.

I dont care for honorary members anyway. I dont believe in seeking someone out just because they have "money"

Also, i love Michelle Obama and Barack but as an AA woman and seeing the other women who are honorary in your sorority, Michelle really hasn't accomplished anything compared to them

Just sounds to me you invited her for bragging rights. But congrats anyway to both AKA and to her

What is the problem? She is the best wanting to align herself with the best--Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. is the just that. Not putting any of the other sororities/organizations down, but honestly, who wouldn't want to be apart of the organization who first recognized the importance of morals, ethics, stewardship, entrepreneurship, family, citizenship and the responsibility to reach back into the community with the goal of having a positive impact and uplifting our fellow peers (the list goes on). Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. falls in line with core values of not just the Obama's but America. It's not about excluding anyone, or organization. Can we take the envy out of this momentous occasion? There can only be one "first" and Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. was and always will be the first and finest. She is not the first high profile honorary member and she won’t be the last. There is no discrimination, contrary to what many may believe. Myths and lies breed ignorance. Does the name Eleanor Roosevelt, Rosa Parks, Coretta Scott King, Alicia Keys sound familiar? If you don’t know or understand the connection, I advise you conduct some research. This is a serious honor, and despite what some may believe, she is deserving. Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. is an organization that sets standards, status quos, protégés, and trends, for the rest we appreciation the compliments, imitation is indeed the best compliment but everyone knows, we can’t be duplicated. I’m honored to have Mitchell Obama as my Soror. At the end of the day we are all sisters in service. God bless America and everywhere else!!!

"1" and Only
Miss. Drama

It is amazing to read the comments from so man black people bickering over black greek organizations. It is just a sad reflection of how lost we are as a people when we claim brotherhood or sisterhood under the banner of Greek letter organizations. Instead of joining together as a true "family" to rediscover our African roots, we clutch to our wannabe white sorority or fraternity organizations. No matter how much you try to "blacken" them up, they are all rooted in the fact that black college students wanted to be like their white peers and join Greek letter organizations but couldn't due to segregation and racism. I applaud the brothers and sisters that do good works within their organizations. However, those who want Greek letters for show or to resolve issues of insecurity need to just "step" off. It matters not which black Greek letter organization bestowed the honor upon Mrs. Obama -- we as a people have more important issues to worry about. Let us break down these artificial divisions that we have created amongst ourselves and truly join together as a family to improve our communities and provide a better future for our children and grandchildren. Peace and blessings to all.

I really saddens me how WE as a people are so easily divided. Division has been a tactic used to hold us down for far too long. Please people, instead of being so divisive look for the many things that we have in common. Yes, I am a PROUD member of Alpha Kappa Alpha but we were all Black women first. Make your sorority (or self) proud and show some maturity. Obama '08

Dawn-

Just a few things:
1- 1989 is not "old school" in everyone's eyes. Some were on for 6 months to a year. Truth be told, some "old school" members have expressed in some discussions that those of the 80's and pre- Summer 90 did not go as hard as they try to make folk believe just because of their pledge year.

2- "If you were not dressed alike, walked on line,knew your ace and your back, and your line was not under 25 u are paper. If you don't know all your sisters by first middle and last names, dont know their parents name or anything about them but their first name or their face you are paper."
What about those who came thru during the early 90's (especially at PWI's that really didn't have a clue of what the new MIP should have looked like) and meet the criteria you've laid out? Like I said, not all "old school" is really "old school". Bottom line is that your perspective is what make it hard to eliminate hazing. "Don't haze but I'm better than you because I'm telling you not to do what I did" - how schizo is that? Let's really mature folk - not just in age.
3- "She has only accepted the invitation, Our national president was the first to defend the Obama's in regards to the cover of the New Yorker magazine, where were the others? "
Umm - did you see the interview on Larry King w/ Obama? He was not as "outraged" as some people were about this cartoon. So just because the others orgs aren't shooting press releases around does not make them any less than your org.

So calm down, pump your brakes and take a breath.

I personally saw Michelle's invitation coming after that emotionally charged press release regarding the TN Republican ad. I could care less about her becoming a member of AKA. MY ONLY ISSUE IS TIMING. THIS IS A DELEICATE TIME FOR HER BECAUSE HER HUSBAND IS RUNNING FOR PRESIDENT - HELLO!!!

JUST BECAUSE WE ARE FAMILIAR WITH THE GOOD SUCH ORGS DO FOR THE COMMUNITY DOES NOT MEAN OTHERS ARE AS KNOWLEDGEABLE. HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU READ AN ARTICLE OR WATCHED A NEWS SHOW AND SAW FOLKS SPIN STUFF THAT WAS SO BLATANTLY WRONG? SHE WAS ALREADY DUBBED AS SOME BLACK PANTHER WHO JUST SORTA KINDA LIKE HER COUNTRY.

SO WHY JOIN A PREDOMINATELY BLACK ORG RIGHT NOW? "WE" KNOW THAT THEY DO NOT DISCRIMINATE, BUT YA'LL KNOW THE NEWS DON'T CARE ABOUT THE FACTS? IT'S ABOUT SENSATIONALISM - SO WHY GIVE THEM MORE MATERIAL.

If Michelle wants to join AKA, its her business - I just preferred that she had waited until after Nov. 4. We have to stop thinking in our box and acknowledge that not everyone will be as logical as we are. C'MON - PEOPLE STILL THINK BARACK IS MUSLIM. DUH!

I cannot believe this - perhaps if I put it in all caps it might reach some of ya'll.

"DISAGREE" IS NOT SYNONYMOUS TO "ENVY". THOSE OF US WHO THINKS THAT THIS MAY NOT HAVE BEEN THE BEST TIME DOES NOT ENVY AKA. JUST AS ANY POLITICIAN OUGHT, WE ARE SEEING PAST BLACK GREEKDOM. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT BLACK GREEKS ARE NOT IMPORTANT, BUT WE MUST FACE THE FACTS - EVERYONE ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH YOUR ORG, NO MATTER HOW GREAT IT IS OR HOW MANY GOOD DEEDS IT'S RESPONSIBLE FOR.

Believing that ya'll have seem some news broadcasts, I hope that some of ya'll who keep missing this point realize that a person running for POTUS (and their family/inner circle) CANNOT just think about how things look to them. That's why the things they say and do have to be so calculated. Not that they wish to be fake - but they must mitigate as much damage as possible - kinda like risk management for campaigns.

I am laughing so hard at some of these paper comments. Who is to say she did not "earn" her way into the sorority. She is a strong black woman who is supporting her husband all the way to the white house while raising two beautiful children. Are you telling me she is not worthy? I guess you have to be beat with a heavy piece of wood, or tortured for weeks on end to earn something. Please. This is why people are losing respect for the so called "divine nine" now.

Congratulations Mrs. Michelle Obama. You will represent your sorority well, as you have represented your country. Good luck to you & your family. ArrrrrrrrRooF!

This is very interesting- those of us who use a public forum to shout out the 'wonders' of our individual sororities, yet end it with the statement 'but we are all here to serve and build the community'- it is amazing. It is the same reason why we cannot come together and REALLY make a difference; we are still, decades and decade later, arguing and trying to convince ourselves who is the best and what remains? A world full of what we term "non-greeks" who are not impressed by us at all. Hence the reason why we get members who are letter wearers or men and women who only want to be affiliated with an organization because, as we have read here, "I come from a long line of..". It is sad and it is this same old mentality that gets me stares in grocery stores from women old enough to be my grandmother's grandmother because I happen to be wearing letters different from hers. It is sad.

My honest opinion is that Michelle Obama should have refused because it would have been the correct thing, in my opinion, to do. An alliance to any organization or group of people, knowing how significant this election is, to me, is not wise. But will I still vote for her husband? Yes. Do I think that with her membership she will do great things and possibly inspire all sororities to work together? Yes, I hope so. The sad thing though is that some members, in my viewpoint, have taken her acceptance of membership to mean that AKA is the only great organization that she could have possibly wanted to be a member of...which of course proves the point that they have been trying to make for one century now- THEY ARE THE BEST (of course I don't believe that because there is no best for every person; an organization has to be the best to an individual based on what the individual needs and is willing to bring to the organization). But the saddest thing is that something that is so pivotal and potentially so productive is the same thing that continues to tear us apart- as sororities, as African-Americans, as people. Will it ever get better? Will we ever be able to see past colors (the same thing we ask other races to do constantly) to see each other for who we really are, which is supposed to be people who advocate and make change? According to these posts- I don't think so.

Many of you are ignorant too look past her desired affiliation with Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority. There are far more important things occuring in this world other than greek life. This should be a time were we all come together and support her greek or not. Not for sorority affiliation because she has the potential to be OUR voice. The voice of the low income, uneducated and uninsured community. If something as small as sorority affiliation would make you change your vote. You were NEVER down for the cause. This is exactly what America would love to see. Us, tearing each other down. Take Jessie Jackson last week for example. Apparently many of you do not watch the news or to dumb to read the paper daily to see whats going on in the world. Together we stand. Divided we fall.

Questions why do the AKA's always give they name away did she go to school?? i mean what is the point of the "process" if your just going to give it way to every famous female or women with money didnt yall just give it to A.Keys??

oh yeah congrats for the 100 ladies

It always seems that when Delta Sigma Theta is NOT in the spotlight, there is always some haterdry going on. And I'm not being negative, it is an observation that I have observed many times. I did not hear anything negative from the AKAs or any other black greek sorority when the Deltas asked Halle Berry to accept an honorary membership AFTER she won an oscar...when the movie, her role and her performance for which she won an oscar was...mediocre at best....first black woman to win a best actress oscar or not, the movie was not great. Halle is not a good actress, in my opinon....but that invitation can be intrepreted as a "bandwagon" invitation. But nobody hated...and I think she turned down the invitation. Anyway, just by reading most of these comments, I can tell most, not all, but most of the commenters no nothing about black greek organizations and life. And being able to recite a stereotype only makes you more ignorant, not knowledgeable. I am a firm believer that if you are secure in yourself and the sorority you chose, then you have no time or energy to worry about the activities of another sorority and you definitely dont have time to hate, bad-mouth or spread negativity....you should be busy upholding your shield. Lastly, I really dont know how the issue of Paper vs. Non-paper (Pledge) came up, but I must say that the people who hold so tightly to the fact they "pledged" are usually the ones who drop their shield, compromise their sister/brotherhood in some way and become non-financial/inactive AFTER they cross the burning sands. You may have known your ls's/lb's better than they knew themselves or could recite Invictus forward and backward, and you may have gone thru 8 weeks of hell, but is that where your service ended???? Sadly, for most of you with that mentality, it did. And you have nothing more to offer but your "when I was on line" stories. And dont get it twisted, I was pledged, BUT, I continue to provide service to all mankind through my sorority.

Not to mentione....job outsourcing, shortage of food....we definitely need deliverance form this the Bush and the Gang

"It always seems that when Delta Sigma Theta is NOT in the spotlight, there is always some haterdry going on."

You do know the same can be said about AKA, right? But the good thing is that there are members of each of your orgs' that prove this statement - whether said about AKA or DST - wrong.

You know what - I actually read posts by members of DST in the blog related to the article on NYTime about this who spoke very positive about your org - but let me guess - there's some alterior motive for the respect they paid to your org.

Bottom line - SOME OF YOU GREEKS NEED TO GET YOUR HEADS OUT OF YOUR BEHINDS!!!!!! YOU MAKE SUCH PETTY, TIT FOR TAT POSTS AND WONDER WHY PEOPLE QUESTION BGLOS RELEVANCY!!!!!!

JUST STOP THE PETTINESS! SOMEBODY, ANYBODY ~ STOP THE MADNESS!

PIAPD - YOUR POST JUST SPAT ON POSTS LIKE THOSE POSTED BY STL_DST.

You guys fall for it everytime. Do you all not see that this story was posted to do just what most of you are doing on this page? All of you are beautiful, black women that respresents your "choice" of sorority that you pledged, but you all are beautiful, black women FIRST. These sororities are alive because of you. Without you all, sororities would be a fairytale. We talk so much about how everybody else tear down black women but I see it right here on this page. You all need to wake up. Sometime people get so caught up in themselves or what they "represent" that we overlook the big picture. I'm seeing people on here talking about actually changing there vote because of this. If you feel that way, more power to you but the truth is you probably wasn't going to vote for her husband anyway. Look at the bigger picture people. Why are we so divisive on things that are not that important? Everybody have their choice in what it is they would like to do or not do so why do we judge? She clearly says that she looks forward in working with all of you to help bring change in your communities. I though that was most important statement made.

Obama 08

I'm curious...who's running for President again?? I thought Barak Obama was running-not Michelle. And what does her HONORARY membership have to do with the politics of today? I guess everyone who is "outraged" stop listening to Alicia Keys too. Many people seem to hate on the wonderful women (actresses, musicians, judges, attorneys, activists, etc) who have been invited into honorary membership but since we maintain an unspoken rule NOT to have 300 people on our intake lines, we can bestow honorary memberships as we see fit.

To: Things That Make You Go hmmmm!--you asked, "did she go to school?" Michelle Obama is a lawyer!!!!! You should try picking up a newspaper or at least watching CNN, BEFORE commenting/blogging. Ignorance is not a good look and I hope you are not old enough to vote because it is obvious that you are not informed.

First of all... I would like to say that I am so proud that Michelle Obama has accepted membership into the most exceptionally elegant and extraordinary organization, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated. I am a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha and I respect and honor what my sorority means to me and what she has done for many people all over the world. As I read the many ignorant and tasteless messages posted on here, I shook my head with disappointment. How can we succeed if we consistently continue to put each other down? Half of the people on here do not even know Michelle Obama personally, yet within seconds she has been called every name in the book, has been talked down on, and has been disrespected. Michelle Obama has succeeded not only as a black woman but as a mother to her beautiful daughters as well. She exemplifies with class how a lady should be and has always remained a lady during the toughest times of her life and her husband's campaign. It is challenging enough in today's society to be a black female, a mother, a provider, and wife let alone having to deal with personal attacks and criticism from the media, others, and sadly enough other blacks. This is a unique and special moment for the ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated as we continue to reflect on 100 wonderful years of sisterhood and service.Michelle Obama is a wonderful woman and she has definitely made a great choice and we look forward to working with her so we can continue to carry out the vision that our beautiful founders had for us 100 years ago :)

I JUST TOOK A VISIT TO THE OFFICIAL AKA WEBSITE AND MRS MICHELLE OBAMA WAS NOT INDUCTED AS A NEW HONORARY MEMBER OF AKA. SO WHO EVER STARTED THIS RUMOR GET YOUR STORY STRAIGHT THANKS!

You are all WRONG!!!!

First off no offense to the honorary AKA, Sorority Inc. but the first sorority started with the Mason and Masonic Lodge, which was probably when this country began, and even further than that, as many have researced that our very own founding fathers were Masons. Secondly, the first sorority were the EASTERN STARS, although not greek. this organization has done more for our society than meets the eye, as it still remains a deep mystery...and I like that. Thirdly, me personally I love and respect all of the greek sororities and what they have done to make America a brighter place is remarkable...and I don't praise no one over the other..you all are wonderful..no matter who got here first, second or last, you all serve a purpose in your respective areas/committment to our country. I believe that this is what Michelle is saying. II sort of hate that she did this because it will only cause disunity amongst our black women, as we all can't stand to see each other lifted up, But I do believe too that She is saying "thank you for such a honorary title and I will wear it proudly and with grace, but i love you for all that you do" which is what I feel. I love what all of the sororiies do for our communities, and I think she is just willing to work with everyone. and that is what I do love about her. Onnce again Michelle you remain poised and graceful, a true FIRST LADY.

I no longer support Michelle Obama..AKA's have always been elitist women, who for some odd reason, believe that although other African-American women have attended college and have made signficant changes in the community and abroad, that they are better than other people..
Just read the messages by the "skaters"..and plus maybe Michelle should revisit the brown paperbag stigma that has long been a part of the wack ladies of AKA..most AKA's dont even know why they want to be AKA's..they are paper bearers, they have no real substance...they are NOT a real sorority. Although I am not a Delta, and before you go there, have no intentions or plans on becoming one..at least I can say that they are the FIRST sorority to actually address real social issues..AKA's are wack and so is Michelle!

As time goes on, I have personally lost more and more respect for the AKA's organization. The AKA's methods of recruitment and their processes are their own, but I do feel at times their actions as apart of the divine nine makes a mockery of my organization and the others by the 3 day processes and how easily they hand their letters away as if it were a trivial thing...I pray for all our organization that we don't loose our way... GOMAB

Who cares what org. she joins? She will not be a true member because she has not pledged. Lets be more concerned about real issues that are going on in the world right now. While I am surprised that she passed the brown paper bag rule (yes that is still in place), I do not care which org. she is a member of. I am more concerned about the ignorance of those who indicated that they would stay home or that she has lost thier vote..duh come on now please dont allow something this insignificant to stop you from voting for Obama..oh and..when you say she has lost your vote..please remember that she is not running for president, her husband is. AKA DST SGRHO ZETA WHO CARES..its irrelevant!

if you want to join the lovely and educated ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. And you have already graduated from undergrad how is this possible besides invitation thanks for your help!!
Amber
Columbia South Carolina

I am greek and although I have no problem with the honorary membership bestowed upon Michelle by the AKAs I think the timing was seriously bad regardless of what organization it was---ladies they are looking for something to hamper and beat down these people with and if they look into the past of ANY of the BGLOs and see how many instances of people being pledged and hazed they are gonna used that against her. I also think that the AKAs were being opportunist to boost thier reputation and their 100 year mark by riding on Michelle's recent popularity. And whether you want to admit it or not you know that it is true. Answer this: why was this not bestowed upon her before now, what has she done so differently now than before that would make her more worthy of honorary initiation BESIDES being the wife of our future president? Some of you speculate that she may have always wanted to be an AKA, get over yourselves, if she wanted to do it she would have and could have either as an undergrad or a grad, nothing would have caused her to wait this long. Finally who has something to gain from this initiation Mrs Obama or the AKAs? That being said: Congrats to the AKAs and Michelle on the news.

Why would she join an exclusionary group like this when her husband is running to be the President for all people? It would have been fine to make an appearance to support their civic endeavors but she should have exercised better judgment.

What difference does it make?
All of the bickering makes no sense!! Most of the people in these organizations are in only for networking and socializing......
The idea behind joining these organizations is to be of service to the coummunity!!
Hmmmm, not much of that is happeneing these days. I come from a family that have been involved in the black greek organizations since the early 1900's....but I chose not to become a member. I think these organizations can and should do more in our communities, to help make them stronger/better! I look at these organizations as "ELITIST" . Sorry to sound a little negative, but I'm proud of being a member of: "Me Phi Me"!

Liv - Darling - get real. Yes, Barack is the one running for president. But if how Michelle is viewed didn't affect his campaign, his camp would not have appointed people to work on her image. If you were the person who tied his shoes each morning, they would be looking into your past to see who he has associated himself with. If people at large shared your mind set, the stories about Dr. Wright would not have received such attention.

Lady - GET THAT SAID!!!

me phi me - I don't fully agree with your statement, but I think it is important. If greeks are intelligent enough to use it and not take offense (leave the pride at home), they would see that work needs to be done and be encourage to circle back to their org's original purpose - TO FOCUS FIRST ON SERVICE, NOT WHO'S FIRST AND DID WHAT FIRST (that whole first this is so annoying to this point - like scratching a chalkboard.

LASTLY, WHERE'S THE HUMILITY? IF YA'LL REALLY THINK BEING ABLE TO SERVE OTHERS IS A PRIVILEGE, SOME OF THESE POSTS BY MEMBERS MAKE THE ORG SEEM DISINGENUOUS. I AM SURE YOU HAVE SOME MEMBERS WHO SPEAK THIS AND ARE SINCERE - BUT YA'L ARE HERE SPITTING ALL OVER THEIR SINCERITY AND WORK.
GET
IT
TOGETHER
LADIES.
THINK
ABOUT
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BIGGER
PICTURE
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NOT
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YOURSELVES!

Ladies of AKA,

Let's set aside whether Michelle should be a member of your org (especially since THIS IS NOT MY ISSUE). Looking only at the most important issue at hand - Barack's run for President - and how everything the Obamas do is scrutinized, do you think the timing of this is OK? Please remember, the question is not whether she should be your Soror - it is about the bigger picture (right now, her membership in your org is secondary to her husband's pursuit of presidency).

P.S. - This is not a question for any disgruntled members of AKA.

Thanks in advance!

@Outside the Box: My comment did not spit on the sentiments offered by STL_DST or any other comments like it. So a few Deltas and other sista greeks and bruhs have offered congrats...its appreciated. But the fact remains that I have read ten times as many posts and blogs (posted by Deltas or those perping as Deltas) on this cite and other cites geared towards demeaning AKA for extending the invitation and as an organization. And I'm really not even trying to make this a Delta vs. AKA thing. BUT, if someone is bold enough to dish out the dirt and then identify themselves as a Delta to back it up, then my comment was and is directed to those individuals. My point, which you obviously missed, was that some are critizing the AKAs for doing the same thing that the Deltas did with extending honorary membership to Halle Berry AFTER she won an oscar. Was her body of work as an actress not good enough to extend beforehand? Did she not possess the traits of a Delta woman beforehand? And yes, I know the significance of Halle’s win, but people are saying the Mrs. Obama has not accomplished anything to deserve the invite. Excuse me, but she is an educated black woman who graduated from Princeton, is a respected attorney, stands beside and supports her husband, just to name a few things about her. And this is not an accomplishment? WTF. My original comment was also directed to those who keep infering that the Obama invite was a "jump on the
bandwagon" move, and those who NOW want to critize honorary membership. Other BGLOs have honorary memberships, but not all. So, why NOW is honorary membership being looked down on. And how is one org going to critcize another for having honorary members when their org has them as well. I believe those who have issue with honorary membership should work inside their own organization to facilitate change instead of using this as a platform to spread untruths and negativity about another. I dont have a problem with any other BGLO, but I do have a problem with the negativity and ignorance.

To my NPHC brothers and sisters...no need to insult any NPHC organization here. It just causes disunity. Individual opinions are just that...individual, no matter what organization a member represents. And also remember that some "members" here may be perps. Again, no need to insult one another, we are family.

Also, SILENCE IS GOLDEN. Don't waste time arguing with people who don't have a clue about us. Let them think and say whatever they wish. Eventually they'll shut up if we don't respond.

I am very concerned about all of the comments that have been posted regarding the invitation for honorary membership that Alpha Kappa Alpha extended to Mrs. Obama. I think that a lot of the people posting comments are missing or overlooking the bigger picture: Barack Obama's presidential election. Believe it or not, white people are still intimidated by the success of African-Americans. All we need is more bad press, or a another connected to an exclusive black organization. This same conversation would have taken place regardless of which sorority extended membership to Mrs. Obama. Personally, I just hope that all of this doesn't come back to bite any of us in our behinds.
Regardless of Mrs. Obama's greek or non greek ties, Barack Obama will still have my vote in November. We need to remained unified as a people, regardless of what BGLO you belong to. If we don't, we can guarantee McCain the White House, and another 8 years of the Bush mentality.

Obama O8!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I posted a comment previously. However, I'll make this one more direct: WE ARE BLACK- PRIMARILY OF AFRICAN DESCENT--- NOT GREEK!!! AS DAP IN SCHOOL DAZE WOULD SAY...WAAAAAAAAAAAAKE UP!!! UNITY PEOPLE..UNITY

"or those perping as Deltas"

Good point - remember that.

"And I'm really not even trying to make this a Delta vs. AKA thing. BUT, if someone is bold enough to dish out the dirt and then identify themselves as a Delta to back it up, then my comment was and is directed to those individuals."
See comment above. Also, undersatand that you cannot say that you don't want to make it a DST v. AKA but respond in the manner in which you did (take this as a development opportunity :-). It is possible to address the few without generalizing - resulting in making your point w/o encouraging unwarranted high school banter.

But I cannot stress enough the need to let the first point above marinate.

Lastly, the discussion against honorary membership is not new at all. And, it's not about AKA, it's just that your org has provide a big platform for opponents to stand upon.

Most of you sorority women should be ashamed of yourselves. You'd rather focus on and write about this honorary status than a real issue. Have any of you written The New Yorker magazine regarding that racist and tasteless cover of Senator Obama and his wife Michelle? I would be surprised, but satisfied, if you have.
the only comments made on this site with which I could identity were those by amerob0814 and modiva. I tip my hat to them.

Nothing about these sororities is helping to unify us as a people. They are divisive, elitist and I would think Mrs. Obama would not want to painted as an 'elitist" since she and her husband were accused of that by Hillary.

I would rather see Mrs. Obama work with or found a group that unifies black women and not divides them.

I have four daughters and I will be disappointed if they ever feel the need to join one of these fake organizations to experience sisterhood.

One of my best friends is an AKA, and when she was going through tribulations, I asked her where were her SORORS?? Not one of the women she pledged with were there for her in times of distress.

So...you tell me...who are her sorors? Who are her sisters?

Non Exclusive, does she really wanna skee-wee, when you pledge you take an oath that is exclusive. I don't know maybe an aka can clear this up.

Maybe she'll walk out like the founders of DST. Non exclusive where is the loyalty?

I would first like to say that I am glad that Michelle Obama accepted the invite to become a member of the Divine Nine, regardless of which organization she joined. I am ashamed to read some of the negative comments and remarks about other D9 sororities, including mines. DELTA SIGMA THETA. With that being said I have to comment on some remarks…
Queen> I’m glad that you think AKA is the best, but that is just your opinion. That is why you joined. I’m pretty sure SGRho and ZPhiB thinks the same about their orgs. I doubt that anyone would want to duplicate your organization, which is why we have created our own. We all have different ideals, morals, agendas, and beliefs.
Pretty Is As Pretty Does>Please don’t act like you haven’t spoken badly about my organization. Deltas are not the only people on this blog with an objection to Mrs. Obama’s decision.
**Also take note that it is simple to disagree with others in a respectful and sisterly manner, while still accepting their opinions.
After all is said and done we are all sisters at the end of the day working towards change. Just a note: A good friend of mines who will always be an AKA was killed because of the color of her skin. In 2008!?! She was an astonishing young woman and will always be missed. I think that we can talk about more important things then what decisions Michelle Obama has made about becoming a Greek. How about talking about racism and how to combat it along with high fuel prices, foreclosures, our economy, & etc? Congratulations to the AKA’s for celebrating their Centennial.

WOW AS A MEMBER OF ZETA PHI BETA! I THINK IT'S WONDERFUL THAT SHE JOINED OUR GREEK FAMILY! ALOT OF PEOPLE TAKE THIS SORORITY THING TOO SERIOUS! I MEAN REALLY WE ALL STILL ONE IN THE SAME WEATHER IT'S ZETA,DELTA,SGRHO OR WHATEVER WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGTHER! SO STOP BASHING AND HATING ON THE AKA'S ABOUT WHAT THEY ARE DOING! FURTHER MORE ALOT OF YOU ALL ARE MAKING US LOOK BAD SO PLEASE CHILL OUT AND GET OVER IT!

First of all, I would like to congratulate my Greek sisters on 100 years of good deeds and in honoring Michelle Obama. What a wonderful contribution to your organization!
I am not one to comment in these venues but could not help myself under these circumstances. We have way more important things to worry about than what sorority Michelle Obama chooses. First of which is, can we get her husband elected?! I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc and am pleased beyond belief that Michelle Obama saw the value in Greek Letter Organizations. I hope her membership in the first black women's sorority will help uplift us all. The good work of the Divine 9 many times goes unnoticed due to the bad press that is always out there. Let us all rejoice in the good press of possibly the first Black First Lady recognizing the good that we all do. Stop hating one another and rejoice in the good! God Bless!

I am saddened for all of the Divine 9 that this is how we respond to events that put one of us in the public light. This is the image that others see of us while I know of all the work my organization does for the community as well as all of the work the other members of the Divine 9 are doing also. Those are the activities that need to be highlighted.

I am happy that so many amazing women have joined our sisterhood in whatever way was available or suited them. Michelle Obama will be a welcome addition to our sisterhood. I am not African American, I did pledge, and I will continue to proudly work with my sorors as we enter into our second century of providing service to ALL mankind.

I am appauled to read comments in regards to Michelle Obama, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated, and BGLOs. I am a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated, I developed an genuine interest in the target programs of the sorority because they correlate with my beliefs, goals and future aspirations, this is probably the same for Mrs. Obama. Although, I am a member of this great organization it does not limit my support for other organizations such as DST, ZPB, SGRho, APA, etc. We should all have a common interest, to embrace, uplift and change our community and the face of America. I believe that Michelle Obama is worthy of this honorary membership and it came at a time wherein our sorority is celebrating 100 years of service to ALL mankind (light, dark, white, tall, skinny, asian, hispanic, etc.) I had the privileage of being in D.C. these past few days for our convention and saw several sorority members that were of other ethnic backgrounds, I am delighted to know that not everyone looks like me, so be sure to do your research. Barack and Michelle have a desire to change America, it is bigger than what organization she wants to join, but we all need to focus on the real issues (healthcare, poverty, education, jobs, military, gas prices) those are all issues that concern the ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. and should concern you too, those issues are a serious matter, not your petty comments!

@ Outside the Box: It's impressive that you can cut and paste...and you do it so well, but it's obvious that you have trouble reading. And since interpretation is subjective, I will just say that you continue to misinterpret my comments. I'm sure that we could go back and forth about this until the election, but this is becoming more like comic relief than civil debate.....especially the (take this as a development opportunity :-)....oh oh, watch out, now I'm starting to cut and paste. And I'm sure that anyone who disagrees with you is "disgruntle". An array of issues have developed out of this one gesture, which I'm postive had nothing but wonderful intentions. Many of these issues are of signifigance to BGLOS and others go beyond BGLOs. If you can engage in some intelligent/civil debate then I'm all up for it, but if not, I'll just give you the deuces. But, I will say this...IN MY OPINION, the timing of the invitation is irrelevant in terms of Senator Obama's presidential campaign. It in no way has a reflection on his political platform and ability to lead this country. This will NOT be an issue discussed at the presidential debates. And it is definitely irrelevant when it comes down to mainstream america, the religious right, the conservatives, independents, the undecided voters and any of the other individuals that poor, working and middle class americans have to worry about voting for McCain. To be honest, it's black folks, greek and non-greek, making a fuss about it. Mainstream media reported the news, but they have not been the ones to turn this into negative press, we have. If you look back, it is the negative publicity that has come from the mainstream that has been a blow to his campaign and image. Even when Obama's "blackness" was questioned, mainstream media rode that story like a cowboy. Do you really think the "powers that be" thought twice about that invitation??? If anything, they could capitalize on the dissension that has developed out of it...and that was created by us, and would be our faults. I would question the mentality of anyone who would use this situation as the determining factor for whether or not they vote for Senator Obama.
Disclaimer: I'm aware that not all black people are Democrats and that many will vote for a candidate other than Senator Obama. I'm also aware that there are mainstream inidiviuals who are not Republicans and who will vote for Senator Obama.

Well..just like my grandmother said..we can be just like crabs in a bucket. I am ashamed of the negative comments about Michelle Obama and each other on this blog. I thought soror came with some intellect, but you seem to be void of that. Be careful you may squash the pea, pea brain that is. Instead of ignorance, you should be offering respect, your service, educational capabilities and leadership, not acting like this is a gang initiation about colors. Is that how you rep your sorority? I thought for sure we had more snap than the so called "blue collar worker" mentality, going into the 21st century, but reading all this is a sad revelation. God just can't give some people a blessing.

Be careful what you say or in this case what you write my sisters.......the media is all over this. We must remain united with our support for Barrack!

Once she accepts..she has no choice but to rule the other out..and why would you want to be apart of anything else. I mean really??

I dont think that people should change their vote NOW. Although I don't think that she thought out the comment... We have to realize that Obama is running for President not Michelle,and he probably had nothing to do with this.

PIAPD,

You have called my literacy and interpretation skills into question yet I must say that yours appear questionable as well. Perhaps your emotions are keeping you from really reading my post without turning on your “hate-dar”. So I’m going to try to keep this simple.

Honorary Membership – As I said, this is not the first time people have expressed their discontent. This selection has given opponents a bigger platform to stand on. As for Halle Berry – how do you know that people did not have opposing views back then? You must remember that the “blog” phenomenon was not as popular back then so your assumption is theoretical at best. I do know that the editor of Honey Magazine wrote what I thought was a less than classy piece on it. What piece? Yeah – that’s how irrelevant it was.

“(take this as a development opportunity :-).” – I was actually being sincere. Making your point in a classy (professional) manner is always more effective than coming off as emotional/catty. Trust me on this one.

Your “timing” response: I asked for opinions to simply see another side. I have no comment.

“disgruntled” – Perhaps I should have been clearer – I’ll accept that. To make it plain, I did not want disgruntled members of your org with an axe to grind with AKA to use my question to do so (I have seen it elsewhere). I only wanted responses from members who would respond from a rational place.

Lastly, I am more than capable of having a discussion with someone that has an opposing view, but apparently emotions are running too high for me to expect that at this time.

Peace out ((throwing up the deuces)) – I’m out.

I CAN NOT BELIEVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I CAN NOT BELIEVE THIS!!!!!

I REALLY CAN NOT BELIEVE THIS!!!!

THIS IS CRAZY!!!!!!

I AM SITTING HERE JUST.....WOW!!!

THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY BEFORE YOU SAY IT.

CONGRATS TO MRS. OBAMA.

WE ARE PROFESSIONAL WOMEN AND READING THE COMMENTS IS VERY DISAPOINTING.

ALL OF THE FOUNDERS OF EACH OF THE DIVINE 9 ORGANIZATIONS ARE PROBABLY TURNING BLUE IN THEIR GRAVES AND LOOKING AT ALL THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS WISHING THAT THEY WERE HERE TO SNATCH ALL YOUR LETTERS.

I CAN NOT BELIEVE THIS AT ALL!!!!

In my opinion, the reason she stated that she doesnt limit herself to Alpha Kappa Alpha is because she never wanted to be a member. In my Sorority, Delta Sigma Theta, if you are honorary or collegiate, grad, whatever if you are inducted you are in DST for Eternity. There is no going back.

Come on educated people!!! I read the first few comments, with people talking about losing their vote, etc... Since when did we ever vote on a First Lady anyway? Everyone please keep in mind that we are voting on the next President of the United States, and not on his wife.

We can let near-sighted ignorance keep us only looking as far as our colors, both physically and in the "Greek scheme of things," or we can wake up and use our God given brains and education thereof to effect the right decisions for this country.

I for one am tired of the new financial shackles that the current leadership of our country have deemed necessary to put on us.

...and in the immortal words of Black Bush (i.e. Dave Chappelle), "Oil?! Who said somethin' about some oil?"

Alpha Kappa Alpha is a non-partisan organization and we do not side with any political party. Michelle Obama is a aware of our stance and the line between polictics and greek membership has not been crossed. I along with other members of the organization support her acceptance, and because we are non partisan, we do not feel this is "bad timing". Black folks we simply have to do better.

Ya'll silly.
Our goals are common, our colors are different.
Who cares what organization she's talking about joining.
Who cares what colors she'll be wearing.
Who cares!
What we need to do is go back to why we were founded in the first place. Life is hard for people right now. Not just blacks, but everybody. If you aren't in a bad way because of the stuff going down in our world today, good for you.
If you are feeling the effects and/or know someone who is, at the end of the day, it doesn't matter WHAT colors you're wearing.

I get so tired of the bragging of who is in who's organization. Brag about who is doing WORK in your organization.
Sometimes name dropping don't get you much but pity because most people could probably care less.
It's your actions that count. They count in the community. They count in the grand scheme of things.

Off my soapbox...

Smilewiper, DST Fall 1998

Wow! That is all I can say after reading this. I interpreted the "non exclusive" comment to mean that she will work with and assist other D9's regardless of her membership with AKA. I say if she wants to be an AKA, good for her. Not everyone can be a Delta anyway. Furthermore, once she becomes a member of AKA the exclusive thing as many of you have interpreted won't really matter because no one will extend her a memebership honorary or otherwise if she is a part of another D9 org.

Congrats to AKA if they want her as an honorary member and she accepts. Point blank.

..and thats MY .13 cents!!!!!

May God Bless Michelle Obama, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc and all NPHC members. I would just like to say that I think we need to stop it with the angry comments and support our new sistahfriend. As a proud member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc., I am soooooo happy to see that she chose to be a part of our (NPHC) family. Not for nothing, you know we would all have our panties in a bunch if she chose to join a mainstream organization so....relax. Happy Centennial to the Women of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated and congratulations on all of your current & future successes. Peace & Unity

To the person who asked where were the Deltas when the negative comments about Mrs. Obama were made, where was AKA when DST led the Women's Suffrage March? Where were you when Mary McLeod Bethune was building her own school to educate black women? Where were you when Dorothy Height was working to improve humanity and advising the Big Six during the Civil Rights Years? Where were you when Daisy Bates was leading the Little Rock Nine? AKA may have been the first sorority established, but Delta was the first established and incorporated with the SOLE purpose of community service. Where were you then- somewhere being a social club and buying more brown paper bags. What has Michelle Obama done (BEFORE NOW) that has changed history or impacted society, as a whole as well as black women? If her philanthropy was so outstanding, why haven't we have heard about it before now? Class dismissed!

Someone who would change their vote from Barak Obama to John McCain based on Michelle accepting the honor of memebership in one of the Divine Nine is a person that does not deserve the priviledge to vote or to wear greek letters. Black greek organizations were started for the uplifting of elite black college students dring a time when they were not getting any respect or encouragement fro their white counterparts.They later served as a gateway in giving a hand up to fellow members as well as giving back to our communities. Why shouldn't Michelle Obama or even Barack Obama for that matter accept membership in fraternal organizations that represent them and reflect their values? Does it matter whether it is AKA, DST, SG Rho, ZPhiB? Though our names are different are values and foundation are the same. To throw one's vote in a completely different political party just because Michelle Obama said that she wished her membership to be 'non-exclusive' is just absurd. I kind of understand why she would make the statement (if she even did say it). Look at the way folks on this board are reacting by her accepting membership in what may be the only organization that ever extended the invitation.

Alpha Kappa Alpha - Beautiful college educated women dedicated to service

Delta Sigma Theta - Beautiful college educated women dedicated to service

Zeta Phi Beta - Beautiful college educated women dedicated to service

Sigma Gamma Rho - Beautiful college educated women dedicated to service

Now that we have that cleared up... lets focus on the real issues that matter to our communities. Anyone interested in talking about their organization’s platforms and programs and how they are making a positive impact? I attended the Greek Unity March on Thursday in DC, it was wonderful.

-Proud member of AKA, friend and supporter of DST, ZPhiB and SGRho!

Michell, this is yet another in a long line of mistakes that you and your husband's camp continues to make that will cause other who do not have your husbands best interest in mind to call both you and your husband inexperienced and a flawed decision maker.

Dearest you, like Hiliary when AKA asked her, should have said thanks, but I need to be free to have access to all of the BGLOs and therefore I can not join just one at this point. Hiliary did her homework, you did not. There is no such thing as non-exclusive membership and all BGLO members know this. And like other posters have noted you will not be asked by others so the question is moot.

Having said that, I encourage everyone to GET OUT THE VOTE! no matter who you supported. WE CAN NOT endure 4 more years of Bushism. So let's just chalk this one up to another goof and get past it to put the right man in the White House. I can say that because I am a former Hiliary supporter and I know how hard it can be to move on. But I am comitted to putting a minority in the White House. So onward to NOVEMBER! and an Obama White House!

I find it interesting that there are many passionate comments on the "non-exclusive" clause. DST coined the phrase "non-exclusive" in light of the fact that they are the only Sorority whose founders were "non-exclusive," having been members of Alpha Kappa Alpha first. We are all connected and are therefore all sisters.We have been divided throughout history by others. Let's not divide ourselves over Sorority membership..PLEASE

LOL... I AM A PROUD MEMBER OF ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA INNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNCOR...... TO ALL THE LOVELY HATERS THAT CHOOSE TO HATE THAT OBAMA CHOSE THE BEST AND THE FIRST!! ITS OKAY, CLASSY WOMEN GOES WITH CLASSY WOMEN. I WILL LIKE TO GIVE A EARSHATTERING "SKEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE, TO THE NEWEST MEMBER OF ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA MICHELLE OBAMA!!

As I sit and watch the coverage of Obama's visit to the Middle East, I ask that those of you, who know the power of prayer, to please take a moment from discussing Michelle's Sorority membership and pray for the safe return of her husband and the father of two little girls. This is so much more important than membership in any organization.

WOW! Are you ladies and gentlemen really having this conversation? There is more to life and especially Greek life than the trivial nature of a statement made by Michelle Obama's representative. If she is not clear of the proper etiquette for exclusivity in Greekdom, she needs to be informed. It's a simple mistake. For the record, many have said the only thing that separates AKAs from Deltas is 10 minutes.We need to use our prowess to unite rather than tear each other down. Again, the major problem that faces the African-American community. If I was a non-Greek looking at these postings, I would call us "Division 9" rather than "Divine 9".

What is all the fuss about, so what if Mrs Obama accepts membership into Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. memberships are practically given away. No one pledges anymore. Mrs Obama is not running for office her husband is, If you can't support this black man, then you deserve the consequences of another republican president. Is not the economy bad enough

AKA's probably shouldn't let ChAKALATE post for them anymore. Grammar check please.

Congrats to Mrs. Obama!!! Just for the record..Delta seeks NO ONE!!! Wise women seek Delta. I guess you settled for less!!!

Hmmmm--word is she has changed her mind and was not, will not, be inducted.

I think that this is a beautiful thing! I'm just proud that Michelle will be representing the D9 as we ALL should be! We all have phenomenal members in our ranks and as a whole stand for uplifting the community and phenomenal womanhood. We cannot be divisive because as one intelligent poster commented, the media is watching us and our reactions while looking for anything that will divide us. I send my SINCERE LOVE to ALL the amazing women in the D9!!!

Hey guys,
I understand WHY many people are excited about this news, upset about this news, and indifferent as well. I am honored that Michelle accepted the invitation but I also understand why others are upset. Listen, she chose the sorority she wanted...just like any other individual did. This choice may have been what she wanted when she was in undergrad but didn't get the opportunity....this may be the legacy she wants for her daughters. When YOU decided to join DST or any other organization as it may be, you (hopefully) did it because you genuinely wanted to. So, don't be upset she chose to align with the first black sorority...this anger that most of the folks are expressing on these message boards is no different than the pain that was originally and historically felt by those women who were not permitted to join AKA and thus began a new legacy of sisterhood. We don't like to admit it but the rivalry comes from this pain...we joke about it but it is real. However, we all need to remember that we have friends and loved ones in other organizations (I myself have many Delta friends that have loved me and supported me when my chips were down...and I do the same for them). Michelle Obama doesn't belong to the black community, no more than Mrs. King did. We can all work together to advance our plight...Mrs. King did. I volunteer with other folk in other capacities all the time. If one is so set he or she can only serve in their Greek organization, then those persons do not truly exemplify excellence in general. So, let's move on to real issues and work to get Michelle's HUSBAND into the White House. Mainstream America doesn't understand this "tit for tat" anyway; and if certain biased news organizations get a hold of this, then it could be another example of "black" crabs in a bucket syndrome all over again. We don't need this type of petty distraction from the real issues. We've celebrated Michelle's choice and now it is time to move on...she is not running for President anyway. I am more concerned with registering new voters in my state, hosting house parties for Obama, and making online donations to the campaign. When I am out campaigning for him, I don't quote his wife's accolades because again I reiterate...she is not the one running for President!! Lets all get out there and do something positive for Obama...if you have already....great! Keep going because we have big enemies there that don't want to see this happen...so stop fighting each other and direct your attention to the people out there that are doing everything they can to derail Obama.

Congratulations Soror Michelle. We are elated to have you. We know that you will work with everyone and anyone in need..."Service to all mankind..."

Janice in VA

I met Mrs. Obama at an intimate event to celebrate her Birthday earlier this year in Henderson Nevada. I was proud to inform Mrs. Obama that I am AKA and that we and the other sororities and fraternities were working diligently to caucus for Senator Obama. Consistent with Greek life ethos, Mrs. Obama has clearly made personal sacrifices and displayed her commitment to the well-being of the U.S. and World by supporting her husband’s candidacy for president. When we hear the title, Soror Michelle she will represent all sororities.

I, too, am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., and I would have been excited if she had sought membership into our Sorority. She would have been a great addition to our illustrious Sisterhood. However, she has accepted membership into another fine organization. So be it. These comments make Sororities and Fraternities seem frivolous. There's so much more to being a member of a Greek organization than colors. Perhaps what she meant by "non-exclusive" is that she wants us to stand together more than we do -- and, certainly, more than we have in this series of comments. It sounds like she "gets it" more than many of us who call ourselves proud to be a part of the Divine 9. I'm proud of the accomplishments of Black Greeks, but this division speak does nothing more than tear us down as a community. Support Michelle, support Barack, support our community, and stop these silly "gang wars!"

I agree that BOTH AKA and Michelle Obama appear to be opportunistic at this time. If Michelle Obama really wanted to be a member of the sorority, why not attempt to join before this election? There are many alumni chapters that she could have properly applied to. And for AKA to choose this time to honor what appears to be our next First Lady, the sorority seems a little grubby in wanting to mark one for their books...an AKA in the white house? Won't all the young girls have something else to aspire to now.
In other words, EXTREMELY POOR TIMING.

Please let us all move forward and help turn this country around-- let us make a change for the U.S.A. People are losing their homes, jobs etc-- you are an organization that is to one goal help by giving services to the community. Thank God ! He's heard our prayers - dont mess up now.

From A DST DIVA:

AKA has always tried to compete with DST and always has come second. Now, Michelle made her choice probably only because it was AKA's 100 year celebration. If it were ZPhiB, SGRho, or Delta's 100 year celebration she would have joined them too. So never get twisted pink and green wearers, I would so feel hurt for her to publicize that she is not an exclusive member of your sorority. Yes Delta will always have more strong black honorary, grad, and collegiate members than you all will ever have. So since you all feel you need some spotlight, I guess we can share it. But I would get too thrilled, she's a "non-exclusive" member. Delta Sigma Theta has dedicated members who support Delta solely.

I agree with Phrozen Pharoh: Ladies, we all have our stars and we all have our stripes. We are all strong individuals striving towards the same mark just to different cadences. Your cadence is just as defined as my cadence. Dont let outsiders, trivial issues or differences break your cadence; just as you will not let an outsider break your line dont let things divide Divine Nine and the purpose we bring to life and humanity...

CUT THE CRAP ALREADY AND FOCUS ON FOX NEWS REFERRING TO MRS. OBAMA AS MR. OBAM'S BABY MOMMA

I agree with Phrozen Pharoh: Ladies, we all have our stars and we all have our stripes. We are all strong individuals striving towards the same mark just to different cadences. Your cadence is just as defined as my cadence. Dont let outsiders, trivial issues or differences break your cadence; just as you will not let an outsider break your line dont let things divide Divine Nine and the purpose we bring to life and humanity...

Good Day Readers,

As a member of the Divine Nine this note thread is foolish. I hope every Divine Member that shared a comment on this thread are as involved in their communities as they are in this topic. It’s clear some of the people sharing their thoughts needs to go back on line and learn their history and why their organizations were originally created .

What is worse: the majority of the writers on this note are prophytes; the attitudes displayed in this thread is a major reason why the Divine Nine is such a joke in our communities today. How can we be prejudice with our own people? Not only do minority women have to worry about prejudice based on their gender, social class, size, looks, and color of their skin, but we have to worry about the slurs against what “colors” we represent.

Am I wrong or is the Divine Nine represented by Christian based organizations, am I wrong or did we all pledge to service our communities and uplift our people. Even if you did not “pledge” we all took an oath to uplift the platforms of our organization. I don’t think hating other organizations were ever discussed in our history books and lessons.

I advice all interest to stay away, please do not make the same mistake as some of this people and pledge with a negative attitude! Understand the history of Divine Nine organizations, pledge to help your community and everyone in it! There are too many fooIish members in the Divine Nine, please do not be one of them. I pray Michele Obama has not been affected by this shadow in the black community.

~Disappointed Neo~

The one thing that stands out regarding Michelle Obama's acceptance of offer to join AKA is that most are missing the point that shows HOW LITTLE she is a part of Black life. Mrs. Obama may live on the Southside of Chicago, but keep in mind she did not experience BLACK COLLEGE LIFE. Her college years were in a WHITE ELITE setting, Princeton & Harvard. Did anyone bother to ask her if she were a member of a predominately white sorority?
If Mrs Obama were truly interested in Black Sorority membership, she's been out of college for at least 20 years, and could have joined the alumnae chapter of the sorority of her choice at anytime. Besides the sororities, there is the Eastern Star, which is also a strong and powerful association of women in the community. Will she affiliate with that group as well? There's also Jack and Jill.

After reading most of these posts, I can only ask one question; why are the women of Delta Sigma Theta getting angry??? We must remember that "one bright and sunny day, ALL of your founders pledged AKA." Therefore she is only doing the same thing you all did!! I'M PERPLEXED!??! Congrats Soror Obama, you made the correct choice!! SKEE-WEE MY SORORS!

I totally agree with Disappointed Neo. All the bickering back and forth is really unnecessary. It is only giving the media more ammunition to say The Obamas are creating a rift in the African American community. Congratulations Mrs. Obama, congratulations Alpha Kappa Alpha on 100 years and congratulations to all my sisters in greekdom for just our making it this far. We have gotten this far because SGRho, AKA, DST & Zeta have united on major political and social issues in the past.

EVERYBODY STOP! NOW BREATH! STOP! NOW BREATH!..... YOU GET THE POINT!!!!!!!!

It doesn't work like that. If Michelle Obama our possible First Lady of the United States of America becomes an honorary member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc, she should not also be an honorary member of another sorority. Isn't it in our bylaws? That has to be unlawful. How about she and Barack become rulers of Canada too? I have too much respect for Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc to allow this as a possibility. This is why we have to have knowledge of our founders to appreciate being a member of this exclusive sisterhood. This is a serious matter and not something to just add on her list of organizations and affiliations.

Who careZ REALLY! I fail to see how Michelle Obama's decision to become an honorary member of Alpha Kappa Alpha hinders my sorors and I from carrying out the business of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc..... let me think IT DOES NOT!
On a more depressing note... Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you the PROBLEM OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY. We CONSISTENTLY FAIL to support and uplift one another. We are crabs in a bucket! It's SO sad and quite frankly EXTREMELY embarrassing! Here was have the first serious candidate for the position of President of the US and all we can debate is his wife's decision to become an honorary member of AKA??!?!!?!? GIVE ME A BREAK! This is what is keeping blacks down, despite the amazing progress our ancestors made. Have we forgotten the PURPOSE of our organizations? We are not all SUPPOSED to be community conscious ACTION oriented organizations? A repertoire of distinguished honorary members doesn't make an organization. As I am sure it doesn't make the ladies of AKA. Were not the BGLOs founded on the notions of bettering the communities in which they dwell, being role models to the youth in the community, providing a solid foundational support for their fellow fraternity brothers and sorority sisters, striving for excellence, reaching back and supporting the generations behind us, walking side-by-side as a unit, in ONE accord to uplift our principals and to live our lives such that they may be an example for all others to follow........ that's what I DO in MY organization.... isn't that what we all joined our respective organizations to do??.......... now... lets act like it! That is all.....

I am happy for Michell Obama and her decision to become an Honorary member of Alpha Kappa Alpha. However, AKAs, aren't you jumping the gun by referring to her as Soror? She has not been initiated yet. Also, to those that stated they are not going to vote for her because she stated she will not be excluded is juvenile. I am going to vote for Obama if his wife go Zeta or SGRho. Being a member of any one of our great organizations is an honor. We are all black sisters, women, mothers, and daughters. We should not divide ourselves based on the letters we wear. I frown on the name calling (dirty red). You could have been more mature than than sister. I love my sorors, but don't share all of their sentiments. It is what it is.

Personally, I think Michelle Obama should have pledged Omega Psi Phi. She looks like a Que Dog! She dosen't pass the paper bag test!!!!!!!!

This is exactly why we as a people are still where we are. All of the in-fighting between ALL sororities and Frats. need to quit. Michelle Obama will serve this country well without the back-up of any group. Remember what society did to the BLACK PANTHER PARTY/???????? And anybody who had anything to do with it. If she wants to wear the pink and green, so what. If she wants to wear the red and white, so what. If she wants to wear the blue and white, so what. Deal with it and become the best that you can be.

I think we need to read the whole message. Michelle did not state she wanted to join other sororities but work with all organizations to make a positive change in the community. We do that now...AKAs, Deltas, Zetas and Rhos work together everyday. We may not see it on an international level as much as a local and individual level. I love my AKA and have my funny shots at other female sororities and I am sure they have their shots at Alpha Kappa Alpha. But on an individual level, one of my closest and oldest friends is a member of Zeta Phi Beta and would go to the ends of the earth for her...That fact that Michelle has made the decision to join any one of the 4 historically black sororities should be a plus for all of us. She could have been a Tri Delta and then she would have been bashed for not knowing her heritage. She made a decision that is life-long...her decision, just as your decision is yours alone. Let her enjoy and revel in her sorority just as much as you enjoy and revel in yours.

i truly think that D9 has run its course in some areas.

there are other choices. my mother is an aka, three aunts are deltas, and my inlaws are zetas and sgrhos. what did i pledge in college? not a D9...so many of these d9 women pledge to say they are members and NOTHING MORE...i know dozens of women who do nothing in the community except drive their cars with the license plate covers, rock the jackets, wear the shirts...what is the point? and dont tell me sisterhood, because i know girls who will backstab a soror as quick as the next girl.

the org i joined has been around for decades and is very active in the community...i lived on a road for twenty years that was an adopted highway for a d9 sorority and i never once saw any of them outside cleaning it. you rag on young ladies who are "paper"? please. at least they waited to get out and into the world and live a little, instead of making a lifelong committment in their teens for something they arent going to keep up with but rep to the fullest. they get more respect in my book...

please, any young ladies that are not greek but are looking into that lifestyle, dont become a number or a set of letters...realize that because you are black you dont have to go that route. do a multi-cultural, do a music, do a motherhood, do your research!!!!

as for michelle obama, big no-no. although i doubt it will lose any votes, it still doesnt look good to me to accept any type of membership until things die down...

The Delta's kill me how they always have to boast about what they've done. If it's really about the service u provide "MSMIDST" then why did u just have to name all those sorors and what they've accomplished. This isn't even about that, but u just had to boast. Who cares? I am neither AKA, DST, SGRho, or ZPhiB, and neither do I care to be, but I just had to put that out their because all those other orgs do a great deal of work just like DST but they don't boast about it half as much. I tell my bff that (who is a Delta) all the time, and she agrees...even though she still tries to take up for her sorors. Just help the communities...quit being so biggoty!

We are all SISTERS. Let us not HATE on each other. The AKA's made an offer that she found interesting @ that moment and accepted it. This is a lesson to be LEARNED. 1ST- STOP HANDING OUT LETTERS, just to have bragging rights of who you GOT on your TEAM. That goes for any GREEK or NON-GREEK.
2nd - THINK,EVALUATE and VIEW FULL POTIENTIALS BEFORE JOINING ANY ORGANIZATIONS. HOME WORK DOESN'T STOP AFTER SHCOOL!
3rd- When it's all said and done, it just one ORGANIZATION that we all may be SAVED by the GLORY OF GOD!
By the way, She will make an EXCELLENT OES!

As the President of Michigan Black Expo, Inc., as a 1990 graduate of Morgan State University and as a rabid reader of all things Africentric and Black History related, I would just like to say, as I have said elsewhere on the net when the subject of the perceived eternal discourse between Alpha Kappa Alpha and Delta Sigma Theta comes up, "THANK GOD that Nellie and Myra had their legendary disagreement".

Without it, we would not now be blessed with two of the most dynamic and renowned sororities in the history of the world. I say it all the time; "the world would seem just a little bit lessened without the Deltas and the AKAs in it". Go' on, wit' 'cha bad selves!! Older sister and younger sister - SISTERS - serving mankind (and looking GOOD while you do it!). You both are too brainy and beautiful to be cutting up like this. STOP IT NOW and be real AKAs and DSTs. Your Founders are watching!

For the Greeks who are hoping that Michelle Obama decline AKA- I must say you are a fake. How can you ask or even hope she does not get her Letters while to walk around in yours? You say these mean spirited things because she selected AKA- and I think your attitude toward her is pretty weak.
Go AKA. Go Michelle.
Ok yeah- when do we get to a point where we tell these "already powerful women" what they can and cannot do? What is your problem? Are negative Greeks now the boss of Michelle Obama? I personally think it is good of her to even extend a hand to help other Greeks. I hope she extends her hand to Latino Greeks - we would love to work with you. I am really proud to be Greek now!

I think first lady Obama is entitled to choose whatever organization she wants! I am a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. However, I support Michelle Obama. We all need to join together. It is not about (Delta's, AKA's, Rho's, or Zeta's). We all need to join together regardless of our affliations. I am excitied for her and I support her decision.

I would just love to say that I'm a educator (graduate from FAMU) and a dedicated member of the Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority. Michelle Congrads. I'm glad that you have excepted the honorary postion of the A.K.A. PRETTY GIRLS WE ARE lol. Again Congrads!

Rayschelle Jackson, Ed.S
Alpha Kappa Alpha
SKEEEEE-WEEEE

Well, I must say, she looks real good in the color red, crimson. Have not seen her much in pink or green. Lets not ride her, if she really wanted to pledge her life to a sorority she would have done it before now. She is an American woman "The First Lady" and that is what is important. Let her represent!

YES WE DID!!!! The "First African-American Family" representing ALL COLORS!!!!

I think that Michelle Obama is free to join whatever sorority she chooses. Every one has to choose what is best for them I am not offended by her choice at all. I still think my sorority, Delta Sigma Theta, is the best, that's the reason why I joined and I hope that she feels the same way about Alpha Kappa Alpha (don't understand why but that's neither here nor there) because if not then there was no point in here joining it. And to the person that referred to DST as dirty red that was funny, never had an AKA bold enough to disrespect my sorority like that in my face. I'm thinking the reason Michelle Obama joined your sorority is because she was busy and didn't have a lot of time. Giving up a weekend never hurt anybody-3 days, 3 ways to be an AKA!!!! Ok, I'm thru being childish, OO-OOP my sorors, and congratulations to First Lady Michelle. I'm happy with my choice!!!!

It's evident by reading the comments that the deltas are truly hurt (oh well). The deltas are all such haters!! Michelle Obama is no fool. She knew exactly which organization to join. She was chosen by Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. I'm loving it! Once again AKA makes history for being the FIRST and FINEST! Get over it deltas...get over it!!

So Mrs. Obama has finally been inducted by AKA? I'm shocked that we haven't heard about this. I was waiting for Ms. McKinzie's press release (she sho' loves her some press releases-lol!). I'm just surprised that AKA agreed to a non-exclusive membership. See, you all kept talking about the "D9" orgs - but other sororities do exists. I am sure one of the Pan Hellenic Council Sororities would be open to being known as the first "progressive" WGLO to offer honorary membership to a woman of color. AKA is more understanding and inclusive than I thought. Perhaps now Mrs. Obama can actually focus on her family's adjustment to the WH now that she has gotten this important item off her plate...

We're really not hurt, I think as an AKA you want Delta Sigma Theta to be jealous of your sorority but we're not! Who cares, besides ya'll, the AKAs. You still do not reign supreme sweetheart.I mean we have a lot of influential members that made a huge impact on the world today. I will be the first to say congratulations First Lady Michelle. Like I said before you choose what it is that you want to be, to each its own. Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. will never be jealous of AKA. We have no reason, we're Delta Sigma Theta, enough said.Even you know that.

Jancie it is better to let people think you're dumb rather than opening your mouth and removing all doubt. Meaning learn your history about Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. before you make false comments. Our founders were never denied membership into Alpha Kappa Alpha. I actually thank AKA because without them we would have had another pointless sorority. Our founders realized that they were more interested in giving back to the community and making a difference rather than socializing. Hint: Delta means change and that is exactly what was done...We changed for the better. Learn the history behind a sorority before you start making untrue comments. I know it is said that ignorance is bliss but that saying doesn't seem to work in your favor.
**DST til the day I die**

Lemme try this again -
So Mrs. Obama has finally been inducted by AKA? I mean, you can't make such an announcement at a public, web casted event and then take a "why are people so concerned" attitude. That's like going on Jerry Springer and telling the audience to mind their business - doesn't make sense.

Honorary membership is a lame concept anyway!

Look Common Sense - If you're not here to answer my question, get off your keyboard! :-) j/k

grow up ladies, every black woman is designed, diva's!!!! whether she wear red/white, gold/blue,blue/white or pink/green it doesn't matter.... So what aka's are first and the first were a part of dst so what they are both lovely,beautiful, intelligent women of color...

I believe making First Lady Obama a member of any organization sheds a good light on the organization, regardless of what organization she chooses. We call ourselves the Divine Nine and All of us can not get along because of stupid name calling and degrading ourselves in front of the World. We have bigger things to accomplish instead of the middle school name calling. I hope and pray to god that our people would gaing common sense and stop putting organizations befor GOD and taking care of all Black People. Mrs. Obama is a God fearing woman. She does not belong to any one. She shall do as she pleases. Those of you how swear by crossing the burning sands etc. need to grow up and become professional. Start worshiping God instead of yourselves or what organization you belong to.

As a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, I must say that I am shocked at all the comments. I have always respected all of the sororities other than my own, because I understand how vital we are to black history, and our community. I must say though, what I have noticed is Delta's contiuous slander against all sororitites. Zeta women rarely do it, SGRho women rarely do it.....but it never fails that Delta Sigma Theta can't help but defend who they are, what they are, and whom they're supposed to be! I am not sure this was passed on to some of you women.....but when a woman respects herself and is secure she doesn't have disrespect another sorority. When I look at Delta's I am saddened that your lineage doesn't make you proud but your insults make you feel like somebody, I am sad that despite your hardwork in the community your so insecure that you feel compelled to attack.

I guess my point is that history TELLS you that you are not the First, how you owere founded was questionable and suspect. Please read your history. I am tired of Delta women saying they wanted a change from AKA. AKA wasn't doing enought or was pointless. Your founders were AKA's nad the only AKA's on the yard at the time of the great betrayal. Nellie Quander DST ladies was invited to the meeting, not a member on the campus at the time. So .....follow me here this is not rocket science the disgust, and frustration your founders had was within themselves as they were the only representatives of AKA on the yard. The change you want to see start with you...DELTA. Your name, colors, etc. all at the hands of your Omega men. Whooo that was alot to digest I know. So your envy, guilt, and other insecure emotion is magnified when you insult other orgs. when you were founded on a damn lie. Iwon't even go into incorporation and all that other stuff because you ladies are not ready. All sororities are worthy, and have done good work, but DST you guys "literally" have got to stop this ....AKA's watch you and don't respond or choose to ignore you because when you are confident, and secure, have a sense of identity, and understand your role in history you have no reason to argue. Shame on you Delta! Lastly, to all the comments coming form the ladies og ZphiB, and SGRho, thank you you secure women. Michelle Obama's choice of selection does not cast a shadow on your mission and purpose. Delta's if you were secure enough you would know that this is an opportunity to work with her to get across DST's national agenda. The statement non-exclusivity is not about her joining two orgs. but what she is saying is that despite what org. she is a member of she wants to work with all of you to make the agendas inclusive for a better black America. Your ego ( Delta's) are not letteing you see that. Laslty, stop this paper, handing out letters crap. Divide and conquer did anybody read the Isis pages you fools ......this is what is going to divide black people how hard you got your behind beat, and pledging vs how hard you work for you org. What? Some of us should still be on the plantation... I guess those that got pledged are the field negroes, and those who didn't are the house negroes. lol. AKA may have a short MIP process ...but so do the Ques ....are they any less members no. Oh...let me not forget 21 days of doesn't breed quality members, just bitter.

As a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, I must say that I am shocked at all the comments. I have always respected all of the sororities other than my own, because I understand how vital we are to black history, and our community. I must say though, what I have noticed is Delta's continuous slander against all sororities. Zeta women rarely do it, SGRho women rarely do it.....but it never fails that Delta Sigma Theta can't help but defend who they are, what they are, and whom they're supposed to be! I am not sure this was passed on to some of you women.....but when a woman respects herself and is secure she doesn't have disrespect another sorority. When I look at Delta's I am saddened that your lineage doesn't make you proud but your insults make you feel like somebody, I am sad that despite your hard work in the community you’re so insecure that you feel compelled to attack.

I guess my point is that history TELLS you that you are not the First, how you were founded was questionable and suspect. Please read your history. I am tired of Delta women saying they wanted a change from AKA. AKA wasn't doing enough or was pointless. Your founders were AKA's and the only AKA's on the yard at the time of the great betrayal. Nellie Quander DST ladies was invited to the meeting, not a member on the campus at the time. So .....follow me here this is not rocket science the disgust, and frustration your founders had was within themselves as they were the only representatives of AKA on the yard. The change you want to see start with you...DELTA. How you got your name, colors, etc. all at the hands of your Omega men not no real change. Whooo …..that was a lot to digest I know.

So your envy, guilt, and other insecure emotions are being magnified when you insult other orgs. The whole premise of why your were founded was a damn lie. I won’t even go into incorporation and all that other stuff because you ladies are not ready. All sororities are worthy, and have done good work, but DST you guys "literally guys" have got to stop this ....AKA's watch you and don't respond or choose to ignore you because when you are confident, and secure, have a sense of identity, and understand your role in history you have no reason to argue. Shame on you Delta!

Lastly, to all the comments coming form the ladies of ZphiB, and SGRho, thank you for being secure women. Michelle Obama's choice of org. does not cast a shadow on the mission and purpose of ZphiB, or SGRho it just highlights it because now the world wants to know about the divine 9 we all share in the glory. Delta's if you were secure enough you would know that this is an opportunity to work with Michelle to get across DST's national agenda.

The statement of non-exclusivity is not about her joining two orgs. but what she is saying is that despite what org. she is a member of she wants to work with all of us to make the agendas inclusive for a better black America. Your ego (Delta’s) is not letting you see that. Lastly, stop this paper, handing out letters crap. Divide and conquer did anybody read the Isis pages you fools ......this is what is going to divide black people…. how hard you got your behind beat, and pledging vs how hard you work for you org. What? Some of us should still be on the plantation... I guess those that got pledged are the field Negroes, and those who didn't are the house Negroes. lol. AKA may have a short MIP process ...but so do the Ques ...and many more orgs.are they any less members? No. 21 days of a process doesn't breed quality members, just bitter ones. Delta everybody knows your 21 day process is made up of 1 hour there 30 min. here signing paperwork, and giving line names, stepping and preparing for the probate. No where is there real learning!!! I don’t about you but if all my org. is reduced to is how well we step
( DELTA) then that is a damn shame, ..if you ladies were more efficient with time you would have chose a 3 day process too…. at least your members could get right to work, not buy paraphernalia before doing work in the community, or coming on sites trying to diss other orgs. Michelle Obama and educated community organizer in her own right, and you can’t appreciate that!!!!! Wow….I guess your fortitude pledge, and stance is all smoke and mirrors….not real.

Saddened/Disappointed: I will not dignify your long, contradictory, convoluted post w/ another novel, but please know that it shows your hypocrisy. Per you, women shouldn't down others yet you put twenty on ten with your false generalizations against my Sorors, ill-informed and contorted version of the founding of my org, and YOUR details regarding our intake process. Ummm - I think you need to resolve YOUR insecurities before erroneously diagnosing others. If you were really about the upliftment of women, your post would not be so full of venom based on YOUR apparent limited exposure to members in my org. Hayle, I'd guess that there's a lack of exposure to your own sisters because that which you accused my Sorors of is also committed by your sisters. The difference is that I am not insecure or foolish to believe that a few speaks for all AKA members. I suggest that you seek one of your 'good' sorors for guidance because you are so lost that it is 'sad' and 'disappointing'.

Mrs. Obama is an AKA who isn't loyal to her sisterhood and she has told the entire world she isn't. But I'm glad she is willing to work with the Divine Nine!

I happened to stumble upon this and I am Greek, I won't say what organization because it DOESN'T MATTER!!! I chose the membership I am apart of like you all did, why all this bickering? I am also part of the Pan Hel Council cause its about SERVICE need u be reminded. I am so tired of US bringing US down. Honestly her commitment to ANY org has nothing to do with the war in Iraq that needs to come to an end! Are u guys serious? People need to check out their own mirrors while passing out judgement on others...I AGREE WITH MoDIVA...We are all grown and it is a shame that college educated men and women are choosing an issue such as this one to get riled up about. I couldn't even finish reading all those comments to futher inundate and infiltrate my mind and time with all this...in the words of Lawrence Fishburn(sp?) on Skool Daze....WAKE UP!!!